Kukho phakathi kwemihla nemininzi kwimiphefumlo yethu ebangela umphefumlo womntu ukwesaba nokuthuthumela. Zidibene neenkolelo ezahlukahlukeneyo, zithathwa njengezinto ezinobuntshwankathelo, zisoyika kwaye zizama, ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunokwenzeka, ngokuthe kancinci ukuthetha ngokuvakalayo. Omnye wale manani omlingo namnyama ngumbolo 40. Abantu abaninzi banokuba bathi ngenxa yesizathu esithile akunakwenzeka ukubhiyozela iminyaka engama-40 kumadoda okanye nangakumbi nakwabafazi. Yithini ityuwa apha, masizame ukuyifumanisa ngoku.
Kutheni ungabhiyozeli iminyaka engamashumi amane?
Ngoko, unako okanye awukwazi ukubhiyozela iminyaka engama-40 kwaye kutheni? Ukuxazulula le ngxaki enzima kunye nengxabano, kuqala ufunde kumava. Kwikholo lobuKristu ngomhla weshumi omine ekugqibeleni baxelele umphefumlo womntu oshonile. Kukholelwa ukuba ixesha elide kakhulu uThixo ligqiba isigqibo sakhe aze alichaze ezulwini okanye esihogweni. Kulandela ukuba inombolo 40 idibene nokufa, kwaye wayesoloko esethusa ngokungaqiniseki kwakhe.
Ukuqinisekiswa kwentsingiselo engathandekiyo yenombolo 40 nayo ivela kwincwadi yokuqala yamaKristu yeBhayibhile. Ngokomzekelo, uMoses kunye namaYuda bajikeleza entlango iminyaka engama-40 ngaphambi kokufika emngceleni welizwe elithembisiweyo. Emva kokubhaptizwa kwakhe, uKristu wazila ukutya iintsuku ezingama-40, kwintlango. Intlango kwingqondo yabantu abaninzi inxulumene nokuba kwindawo yokudabuka nokuphelelwa yithemba, okanye ngokufa ngokwaso. Kwaye ukuzila ukutya kwezona zihlandlo kubonwa njengento ebuthathaka. Yingakho abantu baseYurophu bakholelwa ukuba ukubhiyozela iminyaka emashumi mane engabikho.
Ukongeza, amafutha kulo mlilo athululelwa ngabalimi abahlukahlukeneyo, abathakathi, abaqhankqalazi kunye nama-shaman. Xa omnye wabameli bale bazalwana abaqinileyo bebuzwa ukuba kunokwenzeka yini ukugubha usuku lokuzalwa eneminyaka engama-40 ubudala, waphendula wathi akazange akhuthaze kakhulu. Kwaye xa eceliwe ukuba afakazele ingxelo yakhe, uvumele inkohlakalo malunga nokuthi emva kweminyaka emashumi mane umphefumlo ufumana amandla okufa. Ngoko, ukuzonwabisa ngalolu suku kufana nokudansa emngcwabeni wakho. Bullshit, eneneni, kodwa oko esihogweni asiyikuhleka.
Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukubhiyozela iminyaka engama-40, uluvo lweengqondo zengqondo
Kodwa izazi zeengqondo kunye neembono zama-shaman kunye nenkolo abavumelani. Xa ebuzwa ukuba kutheni bangayi kubhiyozela ukuzalwa kwabo kweminyaka engama-40, bahlasela amahlombe abo bathi le nto yimbali ngamnye. Konke kuxhomekeke kwizinto ozilindeleyo kulolu suku. Emva kwakho konke, kufana nokukhanga. Uya kulinda inkohliso engcolileyo, akayi kuthoba malunga naye. Yaye uzame ukudala imihla yokuzonwabisa, ngoko iholide ekhaya lakho kwaye uhlale. Kwaye ngexesha elifanayo, iingcali zeengqondo zincoma ukuba ungakhankanyi ngalo mhla inombolo 40, kwaye nithokoze umhla wokuzalwa ekupheleni konyaka wama-39 wobomi.
Ngaba abantu bagubha iminyaka engama-40?
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ewe, kuba isicatshulwa esisisiseko somntu kwiintlobo ezininzi zeenkolelo ziyancipha, ziqwalasela ibali lezingane okanye abafazi abanentloni. Kodwa phakathi kwabo kukho abantu abanoyika ubomi babo kunye nempilo. Omnye umntu osebekhulile wabuzwa ukuba ngaba amadoda abhiyozela iminyaka engama-40 ubudala okanye akhetha ukukwenza oko? Ekuphenduleni kuloo nto, wachaza ibali eliye lafika kuye ngomhla we-yubile yesi-40.
Kuze kube lo suku olubi, akazange akholelwe nantoni na kwaye wayekholelwa ukuba konke oku kungenangqiqo kunye negama likagogo. Ngobusuku, xa iqhawe lethu libuya ekhaya lisuka emsebenzini, umfazi wayegubungile itafile ye-chic, izalamane eziseduze kunye nabahlobo abakhulu beza kutyelela. Iholide yayiyimpumelelo. Enyanisweni, enye yeendwendwe ikhuphe ihlaya, ithi, iminyaka engama-40 ayigubhiyo, unokufa. Kodwa umsunguli wokubhiyozela le nsizwa yahleka, kwaye iholidi yaqhubela phambili. Saye sahlula emva kobusuku bobusuku. Abanxibileyo nabanomdla baya kulala, kulungile, ngomso nguMgqibelo, usuku lokuphuma. Phakathi kobusuku inkwenkwe yokuzalwa yavuswa ngunxanxungu waza wagqiba ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza ekhitshini, kodwa wavuka nje kuphela, wabuhlungu kangakanani intloko yakhe ngento enzima.