Enyanisweni, iikati - izilwanyana zihle kwaye zinothando, kuba abantu babo bathanda. Zizithobela, zihlume kwaye zivumela ukuba zitshatile. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha izilwanyana zineendlela ezingaqondakaliyo - ngokukhawuleza zibonisa ubundlobongela, xa uyityebile - ikati iyakhala kwaye ibaleke. Ngezizathu ezenza ukuba ikati ibetha, xa isinyithi, siya kuthetha ngokubanzi.
Ukuxhatshazwa okubangelwa uthando
Iingcali zihlula izizathu ezininzi zokuba kutheni isilwanyana sibonisa ubugwenxa kule meko.
Ngamanye amaxesha amatshana aphantana nomnye. Ngokuqhelekileyo umama uhlamba iikiti zakhe. Abantwana baqala ukunyamezela, ke banqume ukuba yonke into yanele. Ikati elidala libona isandla sabantu njengento efanayo. Emva kokuba umnini "ahlambulule", isimo sengqondo sesilwanyana sitshintsha ngokuphawulekayo, sibona isandla sisongelo esikhulu kwaye siqala ukuzikhusela.
Ukuba isilwanyana sinento ephazamisayo, ixhala, kwaye kule ndawo ayibethayo, oku kuya kubangela ukuziphatha okubi. Ikati ayinakuzivumela ukuba zitshatiwe kwaye zibethe xa zineziganeko ezingathandekiyo kubomi. Ngamanye amaxesha umntu angayinisa, aze ayilahle phantsi. Okanye udokotela wezilwanyana wagqogqa isilwanyana ngaphambi kwenkqubo ethile engathandekiyo. Unememori ende kakhulu yeemeko zokutshitshiswa kwaye ikati ikhumbula isenzakalo esingathandekiyo iminyaka. Umnqweno wokuthandana kuqala unqanda ukwesaba, kodwa ngemizuzwana embalwa isilwanyana siyakhathazeka-siyabaleka.
Kukho inkolelo yokuba ikati ngokwayo iyanquma xa iyakutshwa, kwaye xa kungenjalo, ukugxininisa isikhundla sayo esiphambili.
Ukucima ikati ukuluma, xa kunzima ukubetha, kubalulekile ngokukhawuleza ukuba ukwazi ukulandela ukuziphatha kwayo, ukulawula. Ungalokothi ujezise isilwanyana ngokuziphatha okubi, oku kuya kubangela ukuba ungathandi nakakhulu.
Kubalulekile ukufuya isilwanyana ngendlela ethanda ngayo. Abanye bathanda xa baqala phantsi kwe-chin, emva kwendlebe okanye nje ngentloko kwaye babaleke xa umnini ehlaba umzimba wonke. Kukho abo bathanda ukuthinta umsila wakhe, kunye nezinye izilwanyana - akukho.
Ikati nganye ngumntu ngamnye. Abanye abantu bathanda ukuhlala ezandleni zabo, kwaye abanye bafuna ukulala phantsi komnini, kwaye akudingeki ukuba banxibelelane ngokuthe ngqo.
Unokuqikelela ukuziphatha kakubi kwesilwanyana, kuba umnini uyazi ukuba yiphi ixesha ikati lingakwazi ukuphendula ngokukhawuleza.
Ungasebenzisa uqeqesho kwaye unike ikati ukunyanga , xa ingalimi, ngokuthe ngcembe isilwanyana kude kube nezibonakaliso zomsindo kwaye zinike unyango. Emva kwexesha elithile, isilwanyana siya kuqonda ukuba ukutshata kuyinto entle, kwaye kuya kulandelwa unyango.
Qiniseka ukuba uhlolisise i-vet yezilwanyana ngezifo ezidibeneyo okanye izifo ezahlukeneyo. Kwaye kubalulekile ukuba ungazami ukutshintsha umlingisi wekati - akunakwenzeka, kodwa ukwamkela njengoko kunjalo.