Ubudlelwane phakathi koomama-mkhwenkwe nomkhwenyana ngumxholo oyintandokazi we-anecdotes. Kufuneka kuthethwe ukuba ukuziphatha kakuhle kwintsapho yakhe kuxhomekeke ekubeni umyeni wakhe wesibini unomdla, ingakumbi ukuba umamazala akahlali kude kakhulu. Ngako oko, ukuze uqinise umva walo, ungakulibali ngokuhlala kwayo. Ngaliphi na iholide, ukubonakaliswa kancinci kunyoko kumama wakho umfazi, kholwa kwam, akuyi kukhangela, kwaye uya kuzuza kuphela kule nto.
Yintoni ongayinika unina ngo-Unyaka omtsha?
Ukukhethwa kwesipho kuxhomekeke kwizinto ezininzi: zizinto eziphathekayo, inani leminyaka lihlala emtshatweni, izinto ezithandanayo nomama-mkhwe wakho kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ubudala bakhe.
Kukho izinto, ngokuthengwa okumele ukuba uqaphele kakhulu, kwaye zize zigqithise ngokupheleleyo. Ezi, okokuqala, zihlala izipho kunye nezimonyo. Kodwa, ukuba ibhinqa liphupha ekufumaneni i-parrot okanye i-aquarium, kutheni ungayiqondi umnqweno wakhe. Ukuthenga iziqhumiso njengesipho kuphela xa uyazi ukuba uninazala uyayisebenzisa. Fumana ukuba yiyiphi ikhampani ayithandayo, uhlobo luni loqhumiso oluthandayo. Kule meko, isipho somama kaMasipala omtsha siya kuthatyathwa ngumfazi wakho oyintanda, njengongumlingani ongcono.
Ibhinqa elide eliphakathi elizithanda ukuzondla, ngaphandle kwezonyango, liya kunikwa isipho njengesiganeko sohambo oluya kwi-SPA-salon okanye kwiseshoni yesipho, isatifiketi sesipho, amathikithi athengwe kwi-konsathi yomnyaka omtsha okanye kwindawo yokudlala. Kwaye abo bakhetha ngokukhethekileyo malunga nomfanekiso wabo, njengesipho isimulator siya kuhambelana nayo.
Isipho esona sisona sikhulu somama kamama, ukuba unengxaki zempilo, okwenene, ithuba lokululungisa. Thumela umama wakho wesibili kwithuba elithile kwi-sanatorium okanye kwi-dispensary, kwaye uya kuqiniseka ukuba uya kuhlala ecaleni kwakho.
Ukuba umama-mkhwenkwe unokuzonwabisa, ukhetho lwesipho aluyi kuba nzima. Umfazi othanda ukubopha, unike iincwadi ezandisa ulwazi lwakhe kulobu buchule okanye umgca wombala ayifunayo. Ukuba udibanisa, uthenge i-floss okanye i-texture fabric. Isipho esihle kakhulu yiklasi yokufundisa umsebenzi ozithandayo.
Abasetyhini abaninzi bathanda ukuchitha ixesha ekhitshini. Ukukhethwa kwezipho apha kungapheliyo kumibini ukusuka kwicala lezemali, kunye nenani lezibonelelo. Uninazala, njengomthetho, unempahla ekhitshini, efuna ukuhlaziywa. Zama ukufumanisa ukuba uyaphupha yini enye intsha yamanje engazange ikhona ngexesha ebeyakha nje ikhitshi yakhe. Namela i-oven, isitofu, umbhobho onqabileyo, i-microwave, i-blender, i-multivark kunye ne-steamer. Kuyafaneleka ukunika incwadi yokupheka. Ngaphezu koko, kukho imibala enemibala ekhonkco oluhle kunye namaphepha amaninzi okupheka.
Abasetyhini abaninzi baphupha ukuba babe neTV yabo ekhitshini, ukuze kungabikho mntu ophazamisayo ukubukela iichungechunge zethelevishini ezizithandayo.
Kungcono ukuthenga iimpahla phambi koomamazala kunye kuphela nemvume yakhe. Kulula kakhulu ukwenza iimpazamo ngobukhulu okanye umbala. Nangona umfazi wakho uyazi kakuhle oko umama wakhe adinga namhlanje.
Isipho esihle sinokuba yizinto zobungcweti , isikhwama sekhanda okanye isikhwama. Kodwa, apha, njengoko kwimeko yangaphambili, kubalulekile ukuba ungangeni emzimbeni kunye nombala kunye nomzekelo.
Musa ukulibala malunga novavanyo
Ukuba ufumana isipho kumama-mkhwenkwe wakho woNyaka omtsha, ungalibali ngokuvavanywa, inkxaso enokufumana ngexesha elifanelekileyo kakhulu kuwe.
Izambatho ezifudumele ezifana neengubo, iingubo zeeboya, izicathulo zasekhaya ezifudumele ziyaziwa kwi-Eva kaNtshonalanga. Esi sipho esikhulu kumama-mkhwenkwe kunye nendlovukazi yokuvavanya ezimbini.
Ukongezwa okulungileyo kunaliphi na isipho kuya kubakho ukubulisa okulungileyo, ibhotile ye-champagne, ibhokisi ye-chocolates kunye neentyantyambo zeentyatyambo.