Isibonakaliso "Ukulahlekelwa yindandatho yokubandakanya"

Ihlabathi lizele iimfihlakalo kunye neemfihlakalo, kodwa abaninzi abakholelwa kwiinkolelo-ze okanye kwiinkcukacha zendalo yonke. Ngoko ke, bambalwa abantu bahlawula umvuzo kulolu hlobo, kubalulekile ekubonweni kokuqala, kwamkela njenge "Ukulahlekelwa ingxowanxaxheba". Emva kwakho konke, iindandatho ngokwemvelo yazo zinomlinganiselo omkhulu wesithethe kunye neentsingiselo zengqiqo, ingakumbi ukuba zizipho zomtshato.

Iimpawu malunga namathanga omtshato

Ngoko, sibhala imiqondiso eyahlukileyo eyahlukileyo ehambelana nalezi zixhobo.

1. Imicenge yomtshato kufuneka ihlale ivela kwisinyithi esifanayo kwaye ingenayo imifanekiso engafaniyo: awufuni ukuba nobomi obatshatileyo kunye nomlingane wakho.
2. Ngaphambi kokuba uzikhala, susa iiglavu.
3. Khumbula ukuba igolide igcina abantu abasandul 'ukutshatyalaliswa kwiintlobo ezahlukeneyo zobomi, izifo ezinzima kunye nentlungu. Khumbula ukuba kwixesha elidala, izindandatho zomtshato zegolide zagqutywa ngaphandle kokucima. Ngaphezu koko, bembathise kuphela eminwe - umlenze welanga, owuphawu lothando oluhle.
4. Izibonakaliso malunga nesilumkiso sokulumkisa ukuba akukho mntu unokunika indandatho. Ngaba ngokwenene unqwenela ukunika ulonwabo uluntu kunye nenhlalakahle kumntu womnye?
5. Nangona umtshato wabazali bakho wawumzekelo, kwaye bazithengela zabo izindandatho - akunconywa ukuba uzigqoke, nangona zidibene.
6. Abahlolokazi bendandatho ayinakugqithwa ngakwesokunene, kodwa, hayi, ngakwesobunxele.
7. Ukuba umfazi ongumhlolokazi uhamba okwesihlandlo sesibini phantsi kwesithsaba, imfesane yomtshato omtsha igqunywe nguye esandleni sakhe sokunene, kwaye yintoni ehleliyo yomtshato wokuqala kufuneka isuswe, ibeke kwindawo ethile. Kwaye nawuphi na umzekelo, musa ukunika loo nto ingubo kubantwana bakho. Ihamba phakathi kwakho ngolwazi lwamandla: ukugqithisa inzala, utshabalalise inzala yakho kwindlovu yomhlolokazi.
8. Umqondiso othi "I-Ring Lose" ibaluleke kakhulu. Ngoko, abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba uphawu olunjalo luthembisa ukuhlukana kwintanda. Kwaye, ukuba ingqungquthela ibandakanyeka, qaphela umtshato wakho. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba nokuba inkolelo-mpawu, eprintiweyo kwingqondo yabaninzi njengento embi, ingalungiswa. Ngoko ke, ukuba ufumana ukulahleka, gxininisa kwaye uzame ukukhumbula apho ungayifaka khona okanye apho ubone khona okokugqibela. Ngaphezu koko, abaKrestu abadala bathi amacenge ayakuthanda i-brownies ehlala kuyo yonke indawo. Kukholelwa ukuba uya kubadlala aze abuye.
Kodwa ke, ukuba uphando luphela, sincoma Ukuqala ukuphazamisa impembelelo engalunganga yale nkolelo. Kufuneka ucele umyeni onithandayo ukuba uthathe isangqa esidala, ngoko uthenge enye entsha. Ngaphezulu kwendawo endala, kuyimfuneko ukufunda umthandazo okhethekileyo (oku kuya kubakho umbingeleli). Emva koko umrhumo unikezelwa njengomnikelo ethempelini okanye unako ukuwufihleka kwamehlo. Kucetyiswa kwakhona kwibandla ukuthenga ikhandlela, uyibeke phambi kwe icon kunye nomfanekiso kaYesu. Mcele ukuba asombulule ingxaki, ukukhusela umtshato kwintlekele, abasikelele abafazi.
9. Kodwa, ukuba umntu ulahlekelwe yindandatho, ngoko, ngokuqinisekileyo, kungekudala okanye kamva, kodwa umqondiso othi "Khangela umhadi" uya kwenza ebomini komnye. Musa ukumbathisa loo makhonkco. Kungcono ukunyibilika ibe yinto eminye imveliso, ngaloo ndlela ukucima i-accessory evela kwamanye amazwe kunye nokunqumla uxhulumaniso nomnini wangaphambili.