Indoda iCarcer ihlala ifihla imvakalelo yakhe, kunzima kakhulu ukuphazamisa indlela yakhe yokuziphatha nokuqonda iinjongo zakhe eziyinyaniso. Kodwa ke indlela indoda enothando neCarcer iziphatha ngayo, inokuxelela ezinye iinkalo ekuziphatheni kwayo.
Abathandi baziphatha njani njengeCancer?
Ngoko, ukubala ukuba le ndoda inothando, ezi zilandelayo ziza kunceda:
- Uba ngumnene, ucekisekile kwaye uyamangalisa. Kwimeko eqhelekileyo, i-Cancer ayikwazi. Indoda iya kubonakala iyancipha, inzima kwaye iyathula kakhulu, kodwa konke oku kubonisa ukuba akanandaba nawe.
- Uhlala ezama ukusondeza. Akathethi ngeemvakalelo zakhe ixesha elide, kodwa uzama ukuhlala encedisa, ukuxhaswa kumzuzu onzima, unceda ngeengcebiso ezixabisekileyo, ulungele ukukuhlangabeza imihla ngemihla emsebenzini, ukukubona ekhaya. Zonke izenzo zakhe ziza kuthetha ukuba awuyena nje umhlobo kuye, kulula kakhulu ukuba umntu abonise uRak kunokuba athethe ukuba uyamthanda.
- Uba nomona kakhulu. Abaninzi abafazi, bengayazi indlela i-Cancer eyamthanda ngayo, ngamanye amaxesha imenza ibe nomona, kwaye ize. Loo mvakalelo, ngokuphantse akalawuli, nangona uzama ukuzigcina ezandleni. Unokufikelela kwindawo apho indoda iya kuqala ukulandela isigxina sayo, iya kujonga ifowuni. Akasoze abekezelele umncintiswano ecaleni kwakhe, akayi kubufihla umsindo kunye nobudlova. Kwabanye, le mpawu yeCarcer Cancer iya kuba yinto engaqondakaliyo kwaye ingaqhelekanga, kodwa ibona into eqhelekileyo.
- Ukubukeka kwitshintsho. Indoda ethandana neCarcer inganikwa kwaye amehlo akhe, "ukudla" kwayo kubonakala kuqhuba imoto. Unokude kakhulu kwaye akhangele kwisifundo sakhe sokubonga,
ngelixa esoloko ezama ukujonga emehlweni, ngaphandle kokucinga ukuba oku unokuyihlazisa loo mfazi. Kwimeko eqhelekileyo, iiKhansela zikhetha ukujonga ngaphandle xa zithetha, kwaye kuphela kwimpikiswano enzima, njengoluhlu luthando, zijonge kumntu womntu. - Uzama ukungaxhalabisi. Umdlavuza wothando ngomntu uziphatha njengomntwana, uhlala ezama ukuzungeze, ezama ukukhusela kwiingxaki, nokuba uyagula, ade afihle ekugqibeleni, ukuba angakhathazeki ngokuthandwa nguye. I-Cancer yomntu iya kuhlala icela isigxina sayo ukuba imini ihamba njani, indlela evakalelwa ngayo, kodwa akayi kuthetha ngolo bunzima bayo, kungekhona ukunyanzelisa intanda yakhe ukuba ixhalabele.