Zingaphi iikati kunye neenja ezihlala kuyo, abaninzi abantu baxhasa inkolelo yabo inzondo. Nangona kunjalo, ezi zilwanyana zivame ukuphikisa umbono okhangelekileyo othi "bahlala njengekati nenja" kuthetha ngokungafuni. Banokuhlala ngokuthula phantsi kwelinye uphahla, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha banokuziva uvelwano omnye nomnye. Incoko yethu malunga nendlela yokwenza ikati kunye nenja.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, kuxhomekeke kumnini oza kuba ngumnye nomnye - abakhuphiswano kumzabalazo wokutya kunye nengqalelo yomnini okanye abahlobo ngexesha kunye kunye nemidlalo. Ukufumana uxolo endlwini, kubalulekile ukuba izilwanyana zineminyaka engakanani kwaye ngubani owavela kuqala endlwini yakho. Makhe siqwalasele izinto ezahlukeneyo.
Ngubani o kuqala?
Iikati zizilwanyana ezinomdla kwaye zihlala zilukhuni kakhulu ukudibanisa nokubonakala kwenja endlini. Izinja zidla ngokuthobela kwaye zinyanisekile kumnini, ngoko xa ikati idluliselwa endlwini apho kukho inja, umninimzi uya kuba nobunzima obuncinane. Ubuhlobo bezinja kunye neekati okanye, ubuncinci, ukuhlala kunye noxolo kunokwenzeka nakweyiphi na imeko.
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Ukuba uthatha ikati kunye nenja ngexesha elifanayo kunye nezingane, ngoko ngenxa yoluhlobo lwayo indlela eyona ndlela ingcono yokuphuma kumhlobo. Izingane zinemihlali efanayo kwaye zihleka, kulula ukuba bafumane ulwimi olufanayo. Ukuba ucinga ukuba endlwini yakho udinga ikati kunye nenja, ngoko ngokubonakala komnye, musa ukulibazisa uze ufune enye. Ngoku ungayifumana isilwanyana kungekuphela kwintengiso yeentaka, kodwa kunye nooncedo lwe-intanethi. Incinci yakho intandokazi, iingxaki ezingaphantsi kwendlela yokwenza ikati kunye nenja.
Inja yaseKitten kunye nabantu abadala
Usuvele unayo inja, kwaye wanquma ukuba nenqana . Ubuhlobo benja kunye nekati kule meko kunokwenzeka. Okokuqala, qiniseka ukuba kukho indawo ephephile yecala elitsha apho inja ayinakuyifumana khona. Nangona inja yakho ithatha ubumnandi, inqabiseko yokhuseleko ibaluleke kakhulu kwintsana. Musa ukushiya abamelwane abatsha abangalindelekanga, ubuncinane ngethuba lokuqala. Qaphela ukuba xa udlalwa, inja ingozi ingalimazi inyoka.
Ikati elidala kunye ne-puppy
Olu khetho luyinkimbinkimbi ngakumbi kunaphambili. Amakati amakhulu, kwaye ngakumbi iikati, enomona, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha amkela ngenyameko naziphi na izilwanyana ezintsha. Lapha ufuna umonde nokulumkisa. Kwintlanganiso yokuqala, vumela ikati idonsa intshontsho , bukele indlela esabela ngayo. Musa ukunyanzelisa imicimbi ukuba ikati ithatha inkunzi kwiibhononti. Khumbula ukuba iimpwenyana zikhula ngokukhawuleza, kwaye kungekudala ikati iya kufuneka yenze indawo. Unakekele phambili kwindawo ekhuselekileyo yecati, bhetele kwenye indawo ephakamileyo. Ungayithenga indlu yengati kwinqanaba. Into ephambili kukuba ikati linokuthi lifike apho kwaye liphumle ngokuphumla, ngaphandle kokuqhaqhazela kuyo yonke i-rustle, ukuba malunga nomntu oza kumrhola ngomsila. Ukuba ikati ihlasela intshontsho, emva kwexesha liyeke ukuba bahlale emagumbini ahlukeneyo kwaye basebenzise inkohlakalo entsha.
Ikati elidala kunye nenja endala
Oku kuyona ndlela inzima kakhulu. Indlela yokwenza ikati kunye nenja kule meko? Into ephambili - umonde kunye nexesha. Izilwanyana ezikhulileyo sele zinengcamango ethile yehlabathi elijikelezile kwaye phantse zihlala zifumana izilwanyana zeentlobo ezahlukeneyo. Ukuba kulungile, kuya kwenza kube lula kubo bonke abamelwane abatsha, kuquka umntu. Kodwa ukuba ikati yahlatywa njengomntwana inja okanye inja yahlatywe yikati, oku kuhambelana ubudlelwane phakathi kwezilwanyana. Yiba nesilumkiso esikhulu kwisilwanyana ngasinye, musa ukunyanzelana. Ukuba kukho izibonakaliso zobundlobongela okanye ukwesaba, zigcine emagumbini ahlukeneyo, ngamanye amaxesha uvumeleke ukuhamba kwindawo eqhelekileyo, kwaye kuphela phantsi kweliso lwakho. Ungamvumeli umhlali odala ukuba abe noxinzelelo kumntu oqalayo, kodwa wena ngokwakho kufuneka ube mnqweno kwaye ungacinezeli umntu odala, musa ukukhupha umona. Vumela izilwanyana zenze ulawulo lwazo. Ukuba ikati elidala kunye nenja yavela ngexesha elifanayo, yondla kwaye uyisitye ngexesha elinye,
Ukongezelela, ungayikhohlwa mangaphi amakati kunye neenja eziphilayo. Iikati ezi malunga neminyaka eyi-10-15, kwizinja iminyaka eyi-8 ukuya kwe-18 kuxhomekeke kubuhlanga. Kungcono, ukuba kwintsimi enye intsana enomntu omdala ayihlali, lo mmandla unzima kakhulu ulwalamano.
Iimfazwe ezingenakuqhathaniswa ziqabile kakhulu phakathi kwezilwanyana ezifuywayo. Ukuba le yimeko yakho, kungcono ukulungisa izilwanyana. Ukuba kukho ithemba, sebenzisa ngokunjalo iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokwenza ikati kunye nenja kwaye kungekudala uza kubona ukuba bahlala njengekati enenja-ngokuphathelele ubomi obunokuthula ngokupheleleyo.