Kwenzeka ukuba izidalwa zethu zobomvu, zihlambulule zethu, ngokukhawuleza ziqale ngokukhawuleza zikhulule izihlunu kwaye zibethe iintambo zazo. Silahlekelwa kwaye asiyazi indlela yokuzihlaziya. Kodwa ukuziphatha okungaqhelekanga kwekati kuneenkcazelo. Ngokomzekelo, amava okwesaba okanye intlungu angatshintsha ngokuphawulekayo isimo sengqondo sethu. Ikati iba nobudlova emva kokuhamba, ngexesha lobushushu, ngamanye amaxesha ebusuku okanye nje kwi-weasel.
Indlela yokuzolalisa ikati enobudlova ngexesha lobushushu?
Ngaloo mihla umsebenzi wekethi unyuka, kwaye kufuneka udityaniswe. Kubalulekile ukumphazamisa ngemidlalo kwaye uzame ukunika uthando oluninzi. Zama ukungagqithisi isilwanyana sakho ngexesha lobushushu. Makhe adle kaninzi, kodwa kancinci.
Umculo ococekileyo weekati uyindlela ehle kakhulu yokunciphisa ubugwenxa. Nikaphulaphula ikati uBach, Mozart okanye ngokukodwa eyenzelwe ikati umculo, esekelwe kwimisebenzi yesiqhelo.
Ukuba unesiphene, kwaye ungazi indlela yokuqinisekisa ikati ehambayo, funa iingcebiso kumgqirha wezilwanyana. Mhlawumbi isilwanyana sakho sisilungeleliso sokudambisa, i-hormonal okanye i-homeopathy, i-pheromones. " Ukwenza ngokulula " I- Cat Bajun "uye wazibonakalisa.
Abaninzi banomdla kumbuzo ukuba ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuzinzisa ikati ene-valerian. Abathandwayo beCat abacebisi ukuba basebenzise esi sityalo njengothuzo. Emva koko, isenzo se-valerian kwiikati asinakulinganiswa.
Okona kubaluleke kakhulu, funyanwa isizathu sokugonywa. Ukuziphatha okunjalo kwesilwanyana kuhlale kuyindlela yokukhusela. Kwimeko nayiphi na into, yakha indawo yakho yendalo enomlilo apho ikati izakuziva ikhuselekile. Thetha naye ngokuzithoba kwaye ungazami ukuzihlukanisa.
Ukuba ikati iyasebenza kakhulu ebusuku, kwaye awukwazi ukuyihlaziya, dlala nayo ngaphambi kokulala. Emva kokukhulula amandla akhe, uya kuzincama. Kwindlu enkulu, ungamnika ikona ukusuka kwigumbi lakho lokulala.
Ungavumeli ulawulo lwakho lwezilwanyana. Kufuneka aqonde ukuba ngubani inkosi ngaphakathi kwendlu kwaye uyazi ukuba uyathandwa.