Ngaba ucinga ukuba uphelele kwaye awukwazi ukucaphukisa indoda yakho? Kukho indlela enkulu yokujonga oku kwaye ubone ukuba unayo nayiphi na imikhwa eyenza ulwaphulo kunye nokungabi nantoni.
Ufuna ukuzibheka ngaphesheya uze ufumane oko kunokumcaphukisa umthandi wakho ngokuziphatha kwakho? Iingcali zenza uphando phakathi kwamadoda abudlelwane obude, bebuza into eyayibacaphukisa kakhulu kubafazi. Oku kwenzeka.
1. Iholide eziphofu.
Amantombazana amaninzi aqiniseke ukuba amaqabane abo kufuneka ayazi imihla yazo zonke iziganeko ebomini babo, nokuba ezo ezingabalulekanga, umzekelo, umhla oya kuqala kwi-cinema okanye wamkela. Kubantu, kubonakala kungenasiphelo, kwaye intukuthelo yokuba loo mihla iyachithwa kwimemori yakhe ayikhohlisi.
2. Sitshele ngexesha lakho elidlulileyo.
Amantombazana amaninzi afumana umdla ongenangqiqo nangengqiqo kulwalamano oludlulileyo lomlingane wabo. Kutheni uyenze akhumbule abafazi bokuqala, kuba usondele? Oku kuyimangalisa kwaye akunakukunceda.
3. Ndixelele, ingatye?
Mvume, zihlandlo kangakanani ngosuku owubuza lo mbuzo kumntu okhethiweyo, obesele akhathele ukuza kunye nokuncoma ukuba akhuphe kwaye angabhubhisi. Abasetyhini badla ngokugqithisa umlinganiselo wentlekele, befuna nje ukuva amazwi omthando. Abameli bencomo yesini esomeleleyo bakhetha indlela ekhethekileyo.
4. Yazi isiqhelo.
Kwindoda, ingqwalasela yowesifazane ibalulekile, kodwa xa iyalungiswa kwaye ayiyi kuba yindawo ephezulu. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, kuba nzima ukuphefumula. Yeka ukubiza umnqweno wakho yonke ihafu yesure, uyidle ngesipuni, khangela ukuba unxibe ngokufudumele, kholwani mna, kuba unayo unina.
5. Ukungabi nethemba.
UJames Bond utshaywa ngumsindo ngokugqithiseleyo, xa umfazi onomona ethatha. Ukujonga iifowuni kunye nezonxibelelwano zentlalo, ukuxubusha iingxoxo, ukuxubusha-kwaye oku kuphela ubuncinci bezinto abafazi abakwaziyo. Konke oku kungabangeli nje ukucasuka, kodwa kubulala ubuhlobo.
6. Ukunyusa umona.
Ewe, amadoda anqobileyo, kodwa ngokuqhubekayo ebacaphukisa imvakalelo, ukuzithobela abanye ngetekisi elingalunganga. Ndikholelwe, isibini esithile apho umfazi elala namanye amadoda, kwaye iqabane lakhe ngeli xesha libilisa, libukeka lingaqhelekanga kwaye lihlekisayo.
7. Awuyindoda ye-telepathic?
Akucaci xa abafazi begqiba ukuba amadoda kufuneka, cha, kufuneka acinge iingcamango zabo. Abameli besondo esinamandla basecaleni lokuqhuma xa beva into efana nale: "Nawe uqiqa?", "Kwakunzima ukuqagela?". Musa ukudideka, uthethe ngqo, kwaye ungadlala iipuzzle.
8. Nakuphi na le nwele.
Amadoda amaninzi akhalaza ukuba akhathele ukufumana iinwele zabesifazane kuyo yonke indawo: kumgangatho, isepha, kwindawo yokuhlambela njalo njalo. Ukuba awufuni ukucaphukisa okhethiweyo, qwalasela le nto.
9. Ukuphathwa kwezinyembezi.
Ubungqina bokuba kuya kuba neinyembezi kwiqhinga lokuphumelela, kholwani mna, ayixhaswanga. Enyanisweni, iipolisi zibonise ukuba amadoda amaninzi aqabisa ukuthukuthela kwaye, ngokuchasene noko, kubangela ukuhlaselwa kobudlova. Akuyimfuneko ukukhala ngenxa yesiphi isizathu, kuba kunzima ukusibalela abameleli besini esomeleleyo.
10. Ulungelelwano lwendalo yonke.
Enye imeko eyaziwayo kwabaninzi, xa ulungelo lokungaphumeleli kwabo luvakala ngathi: "Ndiyintombazana." Oku kuya kusebenza xa ufuna ukunyundela isikhonkwane kwindonga, kwaye kungekhona xa kufuneka usebenze njengomdala kwaye ube noxanduva lwezenzo zakho.
11. Ukugxeka abanye.
Oku mhlawumbi uhlobo lwabafazi abaninzi, ukuxoxa nabanye kwaye, ngokukodwa, abanye abameli bezesondo ezibuthathaka. Ukugculela iimpazamo zabanye akusibi nje kuphela, kodwa ubufaka ubungqina bokusweleka kunye nokuzithoba okanye ukuzithemba. Amadoda kufuphi neentlophokazi abaziva bengakhululekile, kwaye entloko zabo bava enye ibinzana: "Vala umlomo wakho!".
Ngaba uyandithanda?
Apha ubale, zihlandlo kangakanani ngosuku ocela ngayo owakhethiweyo, ingabe uyakuthanda okanye akunjalo? Ngomntu, ukuphanda kubonakala ngathi kuhlushwa, okubangela ukucasuka. Abameli bezesondo ezinamandla kwiimeko ezininzi bakholelwa ukuba xa besithi ngeemvakalelo zabo kwaye basondele, akukho nto yatshintshile, kwaye akudingeki ucele ngothando.
13. Ubumnyama ngezesondo.
Iphutha eliyintsikelelo elenza kuphela ulwalamano kumadoda kwaye lonakalisa ubudlelwane. Ukuba umfazi uyala ukulala ngesondo, ezama ukuhlwaya iqabane lakhe, uyamxhoma "ngakwesobunxele."
14. Ubi kakhulu, ndiba nosizi kum.
Kukho nawuphi na umbambano okanye ukungahambi kakuhle komntu, ugijimela kwifowuni ukukhalaza ngawo kumama okanye intombi yakho. Le yiphutha elikhulu, elicaphukisayo kwaye lihlehlise ngaphantsi kwebhodi elikhuphayo. Qonda, uya kuxolelana kunye nomntu okhethiweyo, kwaye umama nabahlobo baya kuqhubeka bemjonga ngokuthi "ibhokhwe".
15. Ndiya kwenza konke ngokwam.
Amadoda afuna ukuziva ukuphakama kwabo nokubaluleka ukufanisa "isondo esomeleleyo". Ndikholelwe, abayithandi ukuba abahlobo babo baya kukhwela kwi-bulb elula, ukulungisa iphambhethi njalo njalo.
16. Masithethe ngomtshato.
Ubudlelwane buqaliswe kutshanje, kwaye kwakukho ukuthetha ngokuphathelele umtshato, ukuqonda - kwiimeko ezininzi uphenduka. Kulungele ukuba kuqhutywe ngokuqhelekileyo, kwaye xa umntu eqinisekile, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuvuka emadolweni.