Ubisi lukaMama kunye nesifuba sisisimboli sokuhlanzeka nokuzala, kuba, mhlawumbi, akukho mntu onjalo onomama oncelisayo odibene nento engalunganga. Ukubona amaphupha anjalo - i-90% ithembisa kakuhle. Kwaye, sicinga ukuba sonke sinenkolelo kunye nabalandeli beencwadi zephupha, kuphela xa kukho ithemba lokuchazwa kakuhle, lungela, uthathe amanqaku! Kule nqaku, incwadi yethu yephupha iya kuhlanganiswa namaphupha apho ubonile ubisi lwebele.
Yintoni iphupha lobisi lwabasetyhini?
Mhlawumbi, iimeko kuphela xa kungekho mfuneko yokutolika ukuba yintoni amaphupha athile malunga nokunciphisa ubisi yiphupha lomama onesihlengikazi. Ukuba ngaba kunjalo, kufuneka ukuba uqonde ukuba wena, kokubili kunye nokulala, uzibandakanya kwiingcamango zokunyamekela umntwana wakho, ngoko le phupha libonisa nje ukuba uyinyani, nangona kunjalo.
Ukuba sithetha ngobisi lwebele, sinomfazi oye wahlala ebudaleni bokubeletha ixesha elide, uthetha ngobuchule bakhe obukhulu, obuneminyaka yobudala, obuncitshiswayo ekhaya nasemsebenzini. Kwaye, ngeendlela ezininzi kwisevisi - inokukhokelela iqela kwaye "isondlo" isizukulwana esitsha seengcali. Abafazi abanjalo bafuna ukunqwenela inhlanhla kunye nokholo ngokwabo-kuba kuphela emva kokukholelwa kwinyani le nkcazelo, unokuyiphumeza ngokwenene.
Icala eliphambili - xa ndiphupha ubuninzi bebisi lwebele, intombazana engenabantwana. Iingcamango zithembisa ukuzaliswa kwangaphambili - akukho zibonakaliso zomzimba zokukhulelwa kodwa, mhlawumbi akukho mviwa kubazali, kodwa ingqondo yakho engqondweni isele ikulungele. Kwaye oku kungumqinisekiso we-100% wokuba kungekudala kwaye umviwa kunye neempawu ziya kubonakala.
Inketho enomdla - xa ubisi lwebele kunye nenkqubo yokubonisa iphupha lomntu. Ezinye iingcali zikholelwa ukuba kufuneka zicele intombi yakhe ukuba ulindele umntwana - mhlawumbi akazi, okanye mhlawumbi uyamoyika kwaye engazi
Ubisi lobomama luphupha ngantoni - ukuchazwa kakubi
Zonke iimeko ezi ngasentla zichanekile kwaye zinokwethenjelwa ekuchazeni, ngelixa ephupha lakho kukho ubisi olutsha, olucocekileyo. Ukuba ubisi lungcolile, kwaye ngakumbi, ngegazi, iingxaki ziqala ...
Ngokuyinene, ubisi lukanina lubonakalisa indawo ekhokelekileyo kuluntu lomfazi onentlalontle. Ngoko, ukubonakalisa ubisi ngeentlungu ezibuhlungu kunye negazi kuthetha ukuba indawo yesinenekazi ephuphayo iya kugungqiswa. Iphupha elinjalo lithembisa ukudideka ebomini bentsapho, utshintsho olungathandeki kummandla wezoshishino, kunye nokuphuka kuzo zonke izicwangciso zakho.
Igazi elingakumbi olibonayo ephupheni, lomelele intlungu, ephakamileyo amathuba okugula nokuqala. Kwaye, ekubeni ibhinqa ephupha elinjalo-njengoko kunjalo, lijongene nawo onke amalungu omndeni wakhe, isifo asikwazi ukumchaphazela, kodwa amalungu omndeni.