Kwixesha la mandulo, abantu baqwalasela nayiphi na inguqu ephazamisayo eyenzeka emzimbeni, iimpawu ezibonisa utshintsho oluthile ebomini. Ngokomzekelo, kukho imiqondiso echaza ukuba kutheni umlomo wakho nezihlathi zakho zitshise. Intsingiselo yenkolelo-zincwadi incike kwindawo ethile yokuvela "kwentsha". Ukuthetha ngokuqhelekileyo, imilomo iyavutha ukumanga, kwaye izihlathi ziyamthanda.
Uphawu - kutheni umlomo uvutha?
Ukuba kuphela umlomo ophezulu uvuthayo, ngokukhawuleza kuyimfuneko ukuchitha ixesha elihle kwiinkampani zesini esahlukileyo. Umqondiso uthi intlanganiso iya kuphelisa ngokumanga nokuthandana. Ukufudumala komnqweno kuxhomekeke kubukhulu beshushu. Xa "umlilo" uvakalelwa emlonyeni ophantsi, kuthetha ukuba akufanele ulungele ukuthanda, kuba i-primus ibonisa kuphela ukumanga esihlathini.
Kukho ezimbini ukutolika kwesibonakaliso esichaza isizathu sokuba zombini umlomo ushise intombazana:
- Ubushushu bungabonakalisa intlanganiso kunye nabangalindelekanga, kodwa izihlobo ezithandekayo okanye abahlobo abadala baya kuzivelela. Inokwenzeka ukuba, kuya kuba ngumtshato wesibini esitshatileyo, ngubani oya kufuna ukukubanga ngovuyo.
- Ngamanye amaxesha umkhuhlane onamandla emlonyeni uprofetha intlanganiso enomdla, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo isinyathelo ezandleni zabo kufuneka sithathwe kumntu onomlomo ovuthayo.
Ukuba indawo yokufudumala ibonakaliswe ngokucacileyo, ngoko umqondiso uchaza oko umlomo ovuthayo unentsingiselo enye:
- Ilungelo lekunene lomlomo ophezulu ludwelwe - i-harbinger yezinye izinto zokubanga. Ukuba ukufudumala kuvezwa kwicala lasekhohlo, intlanganiso kunye nomthandi ayiyi kwenzeka kungekudala.
- Ilungelo elifanelekileyo lomlomo ophantsi likhanya, oku kuthetha ukuba ubusike kulindeleke kwiminithi embalwa elandelayo. Ukuba ukufudumala kuvezwa ngakwesobunxele - kuyimpawu yokuba nangaphambi kokuhlwa kuya kuba nako ukumanga umntu.
Ukuba umlomo uvutha ngentombazana enesizungu, ngoko, ngokukhawuleza uya kudibana naye. Xa ukufudumala kwindawo yomlomo kwenzeka ngasikhathi sinye, zombini indoda kunye nomfazi ibonakalisa ukutsala.