Makube lukhulu, kodwa, kufuneka uvume, ukuba umtshato ngowona suku olude ulindelwe ngobomi beentombi ezininzi. Kususela kwiminyaka yesikolo, abaninzi bethu baye babala imifanekiso emihle kwimicabango yethu: ilanga elikhanyayo ilanga, umculo omnandi, uyihlo uholele ngengalo, kwaye isibingelelo simele umntu oyintloko ebomini bakho ... Usuku lomtshato alukho nje loo mini, xa intombazana yenza isinyathelo esinzulu kunye nesigqibo sokuphila ubomi obutsha. Le yile mini apho imibono yamaninzi, okanye ngamakhulu, abantu abakhomba kuyo - "iparele" emhlophe, i-princess evela kwindlovukazi, umlobokazi ocebileyo ococekileyo. Yaye xa yonke ingqwalasela igxile kuwe, awunalo ilungelo lokubetha ngotshani ngobuso - emva koko, ungumfazi wangempela.
Abatshatileyo banamhlanje bayayiqonda le nyaniso elula kwaye ngoko ke yenza yonke imizamo yokubukeka eqaqambileyo, emangalisa kwaye uhlale ekhunjweni yazo zonke iindwendwe "umfazi omhle kunye nomfazi wokuqala." Omnye ugijimela kwizinto ezigqithiseleyo aze abonakale phambi kwesibingelelo esincinane, egqoke ngeempawu ezimnyama, ukhetha i-suitous suit. Kodwa konke oku kukude kwindlela efanelekileyo yokukhunjulwa (ubuncinane ngendlela efanelekileyo). Kukhona ithuba elingcono lokuba waziwa njengowesifazane onobuqili nohle, ukuba ukhetha ingubo yomtshato ekhethekileyo enekhanda.
Zivela phi iingcambu?
Izigqoko zomtshato ziye zenza imfashini ixesha elide kakhulu - kunzima ukukholelwa, kodwa kwenzeka kwikhulu le-14 leminyaka. Enyanisweni, bebaninzi njengama-hood kwaye babizwa ngokuba ngama-genins. Ukomelela kwakuyintsapho yomtshakazi, isithandwa sakhe sasiphezulu, ngoko ngamanye amaxesha izindlu zegumbi kwakudingeka zenze izimbobo ezongezelelweyo eminyango - akunakwenzeka ukuba umtshakazi omhle, okokuqala angene endlini entsha, athobe intloko yakhe njengomkhonzi.
Kwiminyaka embalwa emva kamva, imitshato yekhati yomtshato yawela ekugqibeleni kwaye yatshintshwa yilezo zihloko, ezibonakala zijonge kakhulu kuthi. Kwakukho izigqoko zemitshato kunye nesigqubuthelo, kunye nesigqubuthelo, kwaye kufuphi nekhulu lama-20, abanye abafazi abatyhalwa ngokukhethekileyo baqala ukukhetha umtshato omhle kwiinqwelo zokutshata.
Zonke iindleko
Ngokuqinisekileyo, umkhwa womtshakazi-kwakukho, ngokukodwa, ulawulo lwabantu abacebileyo. Kodwa namhlanje uluntu, ngethamsanqa, alusayi kuhlulwa kwiindawo, kwaye umtshakazi ngamnye unokuziva uzikhethele igazi elikhethekileyo kwaye avele phambi komyeni kunye neendwendwe kwimifanekiso ecocekileyo necacisiweyo. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba ukuba unqumle ukugqoka umkhwa womtshato, akufanele udibanise ngendlela eqhelekileyo. Oko kukuthi, xa usenza isigqibo ngokuthenga umkhwa womtshato, unakho ukulibala ngeengubo ezimangalisayo ze-multilayer - ezi zimbini zambatho azihambisani. Kufuneka uqaphele kakhulu kwaye ukuba ufuna ukufaka i-cap kunye nengubo yokutshata yomtshato ye "intlanzi" isitayela - kungekhona zonke iinqana ziza kuhambelana nayo kwaye kufuneka uxhomekeke kwintetho ecocekileyo kunye nesimo sengqondo - wakho okanye umhlobo wakho othembekileyo. Eyaziwayo ngoku izigqoko zomtshato "zesiGrike" zinqunyiwe nazo azizonazona "zi-satellites" ezingcono kakhulu kumkhwa womtshato - kulo mzekelo, intloko yekhanda kufuneka ifane nomdlalo wesambatho kunye neyona nto ibhetele ngayo, ukuba isithsaba esikhanyayo.
"Abahlobo" abangcono kakhulu bomkhwa womtshato ziingubo zobukhosi obunqamanayo obunamathele phantsi kwisitimela eside (ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza ukuya ngasezantsi) okanye ukubeka ngeebhatyi.
Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuzisa umkhwa womtshato ngokuchanekileyo kumfanekiso womtshakazi. Kungcono ukujongana nalowo mnxibi wezinwele ocinga ukuba yiyiphi imfesane yomkhwa womkhwa kufuneka ibe yinto enjani. Akunakwenzeka ukugqoka isigqoko kwiibrasi ezinqamlekileyo okanye ngeengqungquthela - "iingubo". Izambatho ze-Wedding kunye neengubo zimele zihlanjwe, zihlanjululwe, zihle kakhulu - zifana nekhanda lekhanda.
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