Abantwana bakhula ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ngeminyaka yabo imfuno neemfuno zabo zitshintsha. Ekufikeni kwentsha, unyana okanye intombi ayinakukwazi ukukhululeka kwigumbi elininzi lwezinto zokudlala kunye nezinye iimpawu zezingane, kwaye ukuthengwa kwefenitsha entsha kuyimfuneko ebalulekileyo. Ukukhetha ifenitshala kwintsimi yesimanje yindlela efanelekileyo yokuhlobisa igumbi labantwana. Le ndlela iza kunceda ukudala ngaphakathi kunye nokukhazimulayo ngaphakathi ukuze uthuthuzele.
Ungathini ukwenza iphutha ngokukhetha?
Imeko ebalulekileyo yokulungiselela ilungiselelo leli gumbi likhululekile kwintenitshala yaselula . Ubukhulu becala kubantwana abancinci kunye nokunyaniseka okuphindaphindiweyo kwiplani yefenitshala bayaqiniseka ukuba bayamkholisa umntwana. Imigca echanekileyo, imibala enemibala enemibala kunye nee-shades, ubuninzi bomsebenzi baya kubhenela kubini amantombazana namakhwenkwe. Enyanisweni, umntwana kule minyaka sele sele eneenketho zakhe, kwaye mhlawumbi uya kubelana ngemibono kunye nemiba kule ngxaki. Kubalulekile ukuphulaphula uluvo lwakhe, kodwa ungakulibali ukuba ifenitshala yegumbi eliselula kwi style lamanje akufanele lihle kuphela, kodwa likhululekile.
Yintoni endimele ndiyiqwalasele?
Abafana banokutshintsha ingqondo yabo ngokukhawuleza, ngoko igumbi elisesidlangalaleni somdlalo okanye umdlalo wevidiyo unokukhawuleza ukuzala umntwana kwaye mhlawumbi ukhathazeke ngokwenene. Sikucebisa ukuba ukhethele ezo zixhobo zefenitshala eziza kunceda umntwana osemva ixesha elide. Cingisisa zonke iinkcukacha: umthamo wekhabhinethi, ubukhulu bombhedlana kunye nezinye izihlandlo ezibalulekileyo xa ukhetha.
Kwakhona, ifenitshala yanamhlanje ekamelweni elisakhulayo kufuneka libe yintlanzi kwaye kufuneka imthande ngumntwana. Khumbula ukuba ifenitshala idlala indima ebalulekileyo ekwakheni isimo sengqondo esiza kuhanjiswa kumnini wegumbi.
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