Zivuyiswa njani iinkwenkwezi ezingenabantwana zikwaziwa kuphela ziziqu, kodwa ezininzi zazo zifuna ukuzithandela ngokuzithandela ukuqhubeka neentsapho zabo. Apha uya kubona ukhetho lwabantu abadumileyo, abanesizathu esinye okanye omnye abafuni ukuba nomntwana.
Le ntshukumo yafumana igama elithi "freefree" okanye, ekuguquleleni, likhululekile kubantwana. Mhlawumbi ngale ndlela umntu uzama ukufihla iingxaki zabo ngokubhekiselele ekungakwazi ukuba nabantwana kwizibonakaliso zonyango okanye ngezizathu zobuqu zobuqu, besaba ukugwetywa koluntu.
1. Kim Cattrall
Inkwenkwezi yeengqungquthela zengqungquthela "Ubulili kunye nesiXeko" uKim Cattrall uye wabonisa ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukungathandi kwakhe ukuba nabantwana. Ngexesha elifanayo, umdlali wesicatshulwa uthi akayi kuchitha ixesha elifutshane kunye nabazalwana bakhe kunye nokudlala nabo, kodwa xa efika ekhaya, uKim ufuna ukuva, ukhangele umyalelo kunye nokuphumla, okungeke abe nako nabantwana. Kwaye nangemva kokuba emithathu imitshato, uCatrall uthi akazisola ukuba engenabantwana. Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha inkwenkwezi, ukuthetha ngokunyanisekileyo, yathi ayikwazi ukukhetha ixesha elifanelekileyo lokuzalwa komntwana, ihlehliselwe kude kube yilapho, kwaye yayisondele kakhulu, kodwa wayenomnqweno wokuba ngumama.
2. URenee Zellweger
Umntu ophambili wefilimu ethandwayo "I-Bridget Jones Diary" uRenee Zellweger wayekholelwa ukuba abantwana bancedisa ubomi, ngoko kuthetha "ukuthulula", kungekhona isidlo esikhulu. Into ebaluleke kakhulu kuye kuye kwanyamekela ukunyamekela yena kunye nezinto zakhe ezithandayo. Njengoko uRene ngokwakhe athi, wathatha yonke into ayinike yona ebomini, kwaye ezinye azikhathazeki, kwaye akazange azibekele injongo yokuphila kwiminyaka ethile aze abelethe umntwana.
Nangona kunjalo, ngo-2013 uRenee wadibana nomvelisi wakhe omtsha wothando uDoyle Bremhall, umdlali weqhinga wenza isigqibo sokuzala umntwana, kodwa akaze azalise yena, kungekudala, kodwa ukuba amkele. Kule meko, indoda yakhe uZellweger iqinisekisa ukuba ngaphandle kokuncedisa, ayikwazi ukuhlangabezana nayo, kuba nguye nguye owamshukumisela ukwenza oku.
3. I-Oprah Winfrey
Umshumayeli weTV owedumeleyo u-Oprah Winfrey uthi akazange abe nomnqweno ovuthayo wokuba nabantwana. Kwaye kwiminyaka yesikolo, xa amaninzi amantombazana ephupha ukutshata kwaye enomntwana, u-Oprah omncinane waphupha ngenye into. Ngaloo minyaka wayefuna ukuba ngumpolitiki omkhulu, njengoMartin Luther King, owazisa abantu ngobuninzi. Nangona kunjalo, kukho enye inguqu yokungafuni ukufumana abantwana: xa uneminyaka eyi-14 ubudala, u-Oprah wayephindaphindiwe phantsi kobundlobongela bezesondo kunye nabazala bakhe, oomama kunye nabahlobo babo, kwaye ngelo xesha intombazana engonwabanga yakhulelwa waza wazala unyana owafa ngosuku lwesibini. Ngenxa yoko, ngenxa yezi zikhumbuzo, iingcamango malunga nokuzalwa kwabantwana zenza iWinfrey ibe yinto ephazamisayo namhlanje.
Njengoko u-Opraz ngokwakhe uthi, wayenemizuzu emininzi ebomini ebomini bakhe, kwaye indlela yakhe yokuphila, uhlobo lwayo lwemisebenzi, akazange amvumele ukuba abe nabantwana kwaye adale idyll yentsapho.
4. I-Mylene Ifama
Umdlali waseFransi nomculi uMilen Farmer akathandabuzeki ukuthetha ukuba wayengenabantwana ngenxa yento engenamsebenzi. Inkwenkwezi ihlala iphendule lo mbuzo ngokuthi yena ngokwakhe ungumntwana, ngoko akadingi abantwana. Ngaphezu koko, waqeda ubudlelwane beneminyaka emihlanu kunye nomdlali waseMelika uJeff Dahlgren ngenxa yokuba wayefuna kakhulu abantwana bakhe kuye kwaye waqulunqwa nje. Namhlanje, abantwana baseMilen bathatyathwa ngamagcuzin amabini ahlala kuyo.
5. UGeorge Clooney
Ngomdlali ongumdlalo waseHollywood uGeorge Clooney, ubuqaqawuli be-bachelor ekhuselekileyo buyiminyaka emininzi. Wayenemiqulu emininzi emva kokuba owokuqala ehlulekile umtshato, owaqhekeka ngo-1992. Ngokutsho kukaClooney ngokwakhe, akaze aphinde ashade, kwaye uthanda izilwanyana ezingaphezu kwabantwana, ngoko akazukufumana inzala. Nangona kunjalo, ngoSeptemba 2014, uClooney wangena kwi-intanethi yobuhle begosa lika-Amal Alamuddin, ukuphula isifungo sokuqala, ukutshata ngokusemthethweni. Ngubani owaziyo, u-Amal ongapheliyo unokutshabalalisa indlela yakhe yokungafuni abantwana kwaye uyomnika indlalifa kwixesha elizayo.
6. Christina Hendricks
UChristina Hendrix wayengenalo ixesha lokunyathela umbhobho obomvu waseHollywood, njengoko waba ngumqondiso omtsha wesini kule ntsimi. Ukukhwela inkwenkwezi ngokuzithemba ngokupheleleyo kukuqinisekisa uluntu ukuba i-100% engenabantwana. Umdlali we-actress uye watshata iminyaka emininzi, akafuni ukuba nabantwana. Kwaye njengo-Christina ngokwakhe uthi, abantwana banomsebenzi omkhulu, apho, ngokucacileyo, akalungele.
7. Cameron Diaz
Umdlali owaziwayo kunye nodumileyo uCameron Diaz wayenemveli eninzi, kodwa akazange acwangcise ukuqala abantwana, ekholelwa ukuba ubomi bakhe buhle, kwaye ukuba babekho abantwana, wayengenayo le nto. Nangona kunjalo, kutshanje kwiphephandaba laqala ukuvela iingxelo ezininzi nangaphezulu ukuba uCameron wahamba waya ekulungele ukutshintsha ubomi bakhe, abele abantwana kwaye azinikezele kwintsapho. Kakade ke, kule nguqulelo yeziganeko, waxhaswa ngumyeni othandekayo kaBenji Madden. Mhlawumbi, xa indoda "elungileyo" inomfazi esecaleni kwayo, ngoko ke imvelo yakhe yendalo iyavuka ukuze idale intsapho kunye nokuyikhusela. Kodwa ngelixa abantwana abambalwa.
8. U Patricia Kaas
Eyaziwayo kulo lonke ihlabathi umculi waseFransi uPatricia Kaas wayekhulelwe ekuqaleni komsebenzi wakhe, kodwa ukhetho aluzange luthande umntwana, akazange amshiye umntwana, nangona wayeyintanda yakhe, ngenxa yokuba yakhe yayingumxholo wobomi. Namhlanje akahluphekanga ngenxa yale nto kwaye ukholelwa ukuba xa edibana nomntu ofanelekileyo ebomini, unokufumana umntwana ngaphandle kweengxaki. Kungenzeka ukuba ezi zizathu zizathu nje. Kodwa ezinye iifestile zikholelwa ukuba emehlweni omculi ubona intlungu kunye nombuzo ongathethiyo: "Kutheni impumelelo yayifuneka ihlawule kakhulu?". Kodwa zonke iinkathalo zakhe ezingenasiphelo umculi ubeka inja yakhe eyintandokazi, ehlala ehamba naye kwiholide.
9. Eva Longoria
Ubuhle bukaEva Longoria sele sele buphelile ngaphezu kwama-40, kodwa usenabantwana kwaye akacingeli ngako. U-Eva ukholelwa ukuba xa engayifumani "indoda elungileyo" ngaphambi kokuba ahlasele ama-50, ngoko akazimisele ukuhlala ngumama ongatshatanga, ngoko kungcono ukuba ungabi nabantwana nonke. Kodwa umdlali wesimo kunye nomzekelo akaphiki ukuba ukuba indoda yakhe ethandekayo ifuna ukuba nezingane ezidibeneyo, ngoko akayi kuyenza.
10. Bozena Rynska
Iindlovukazi kunye nentatheli-ntatheli uBozena Rynska akayena mntwana ongenamntwana, uhlakulele. Ngokungaqinisekanga nangokungaqinisekanga, uBozhena uthetha inzondo ngabantu abahlala phantsi, abantu abakhubazekileyo kunye nolunye uhlobo olukhuselekile lwabantu. Ubiza abantu asebekhulile "abasindileyo" abaphazamisa kuphela abaselula. Kwaye abantwana bakhe bacaphukisa, kwaye ngoko ke unako ukuva u-"no" ngokubanzi xa ebuzwa ngokuqhubeka kwakhe kwintsapho. I-Rynska imelana neendawo zokudlala zabantwana kwizakhiwo zezindlu kwaye akayikuzifaka kwi-sarin.
Ukholelwa ukuba xa umntwana engaphumelelanga, ke le yintlekele, kwaye abanye abantwana abayidingi. Kodwa, ngokuqala ukuhlala emtshatweni womtshato kunye nososayensi wezopolitiko kunye noomsebenzi-ntengiso u-Igor Malashenko, intatheli-ntatheli ekhuseleyo yatshintsha okwesikhashana umbono wakhe, waze wavumela ukuba kungenzeka ukuba abelethe umntwana. Kodwa uMama Wendalo wenqaba ukwenza oku, kwaye uBozhena wayenokuqhagamshelana noogqirha abakhethekileyo ukuvelisa. Nangona kunjalo, ngokukhawuleza ukungafuni ukufumana abantwana kwavakaliswa ngumlobi weendaba, ngoko ngelixa le ntombazana encinci yayo emashumi mane nomsila kwaye ihlala yodwa.