Ukubonakala komntwana kungekhona nje uvuyo, kodwa kukhathazeka ngokufumana nokukhetha izipho. Wonke umntu ubandakanyeke kule nkqubo: indoda efuna isipho kumfazi wayo ekuzalweni kwonyana, izalamane ezingayazi ukuba unako ukunika inkwenkwana kunye nabahlobo abatshitshisiweyo ukuba bangacingi ukuba nesipho sokuzalwa kwenkwenkwana. Ewe, le mibuzo iyamangalisa, asiphendule kunye.
Yintoni enokuyinika umntwana osandula?
Ukuthatha isipho kwinkwenkwe esanda kuzalwa, kunzima ukuba yintsusa, kwaye ayimfuneko. Ngoku kubantwana kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba oko wayekugqobileyo kwakudambise kwaye kufudumele, kodwa amathoyizi anomdla kwaye amnandi. Ngoko kungakhathaliseki ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuba uthenge njengesipho kusana olutsha, qaphela umgangatho wale nto. Ngoko ke, zizinto ezimbalwa izipho zokukhetha ukuzalwa kwenkwenkwana.
- Xa ucinga malunga nokunikezela kwonyana, ufuna ukulala kunye neetys. Umnqweno awunakele, kodwa kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba phantse bonke abantwana bathabatha amathoyizi emilonyeni yabo, ngoko nihlawule ingqalelo ekhethekileyo kwizinto ezivela kuyo. Ngokubhekiselele kumbala, ngoko unokukhetha ukhetho lwakho, kwaye uqaphele ukuba abantwana bokuqala baqala ukwahlula phakathi kwephuzi, kwaye bomvu nokuluhlaza. Ewe, ziphi izinto zokudlala, ungatshela umama, mhlawumbi unqwenela ukufumana iselula kwisitya, okanye unike isethi yeengqungquthela ezilula, ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba inkunzi yento ayiyikuyihoxisa.
- Ibhedi ingaba isipho esihle. Kanye kunye nesethi yelinen yelinen, unganika ingubo okanye ingubo yabantwana. Kwakhona, umntwana kunye nonina banokuthanda ikhethi kunye nezikhuselo ezikhuselekileyo ebhedini.
- Ukuba abazali abazange babe nexesha lohlamba lokuhlamba umntwana, ngoko baya kuvuyela ngesipho esinjalo. Kwaye akaze ashiywe i-tile enkulu yamatye. Unokuyithatha ithawula elinjalo nge-hood kwaye uyijikize kuyo igama okanye usuku lokuzalwa komntwana.
- Esinye sezipho ezidume kakhulu ziingubo zabantwana. Kodwa kufuneka kukhethwe emva kweengcebiso zomama wengane. Iintsana zikhula ngokukhawuleza, ngoko ke kungcono ukucacisa ukuba yiziphi iimpahla ezifunekayo - ukugqoka ngoku okanye ukukhula. Kwakhona kufanelekile ukunikela ingqwalasela kwindwangu, ukulungeleka kokufumana iifumba, kwaye kunjalo, ixesha lexesha leempahla. Akunakwenzeka ukuba umntwana ozalelwe ekuqaleni kwehlobo uya kubandezeleka ngebusika ebusika enikezelwe kuwe - uya kukhula ukusuka kuwo kuze kufike ukushisa kwemozulu.
- Ukuba ngaba isibini sasingenaso ixesha lokuthenga isikhalazo okanye umqhubi, ungabanika ngokuphepha, emva kokubonisana nabazali bentsana. Kwaye kungcono ukuba uthathe omnye wabo ukuba akhethe into oyithandayo.
Yintoni enokunika umama umntwana osandula?
Ngokuqhelekileyo umama kunye nootata babegcinwe kuzo zonke izinto ezibalulekileyo - iimpahla, i-diapers, amathoyizi, kodwa bayalibala ngezinye izinto. Ngoko, isiphi isipho onokunika abazali beentsana ezisandula?
- Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba zininzi izinto ezifunekayo zenzelwe abantwana abancinci.
Yaye ukuba ngaba isibini singenawo umatshini wokuhlamba, umama omncinci uya kuba nexesha elinzima kakhulu. Ngoko ke, umatshini wokuhlamba uya kuba sisipho esamkelekileyo nesimfuneko kakhulu kwintsapho. - Umntwana usenokunika isalathisi - kunye nomqhubi ongafaniyo ukuhamba yonke into, kwaye kukho imeko apho umqhubi ekuhambeni kuya kuphazamisa kuphela. Xa ukhetha, qwa lasela ukuba kukho iinguqu ezahlukeneyo zokubethela kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo.
- Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba ulahlekelwe iinyawo ekukhangekeni isipho, isigqibo senziwe ukunika ididi yemali. Inketho ayiyona imbi - imali kubazali abatsha ngokuqinisekileyo abayi kuphazamisa. Kodwa ukuba kubonakala ngathi awunakulungele, banike abazali bakho isitifiketi kwisitoreji sezingane-apho bangakhetha khona oko umntwana wabo akufunayo.