Naliphi na intombazana okanye ibhinqa, xa ushesha ukukhawuleza ekhaya, uhlala uphupha kwiindawo zokududuzeka ekhaya ngokukhawuleza. Wazibeka indebe yetiyi okanye indebe yekhofi, ugqoke ingubo yakho eyintandokazi, uhlanganiswe ngengubo kwaye ubukele umboniso ozithandayo. Ziva ukhululekile kwaye ngelo xesha zikhangeleke - ezi ziimfuno eziqhelekileyo zentombazana yanamhlanje.
Indwangu yokugqoka ekhaya kufuneka ibe yinto enhle kwaye ikhululekile, ungathinteli ukuhamba kwakho, xa uhlamba, upheke, uhlambuluke, umyeni okanye udlale nabantwana bakho abancinci, yenza izandla zobugcisa okanye ukhululeke kwimihla ngemihla.
Kule meko, isambatho sisafuneka ukuba sidlule umoya kwaye akukho nto inokuthi ifumane umswakama. Ngaba ucinga ukuba le ngqungquthela? Akunjalo: iingubo zokugqoka izityhini zihamba ngokukhawuleza zonke ezi mfuno. Kuzo ziza kuba zipholile ehlobo, kwaye ebusika ziya kufudumala, zidibene kunye nomzimba, zidale umoya ococekileyo nococekileyo weentsuku zasekhaya.
Ekhaya basebenxibe iingubo zokugqoka
Kwiimarike zanamhlanje, kunye nokuhlaziywa kwayo rhoqo, ukugqoka iingubo zokugqoka sele kuthathe isikhundla esiphambili. Isalathiso apho batyunwe khona, bathambile, baqhenqa, bahlanjululwe kakuhle, banomdla emzimbeni kwaye nabo-banobuhlobo bendalo.
Abafazi abaninzi banqwenela ukuthenga izambatho zokugqoka. Unyulo olukhulu lwemibala kunye nemodeli lunokuwanelisa ngisho neyona nto inqabileyo.
Kwaye iminyaka, i-stereotype esetyenziswe kuthi, ukuba "isambatho asiyihombisi" ayifanelekanga ixesha elide. Iingubo zokugqoka ezikhoyo zangoku zithenga nje zithuthuzela kwaye zinyamezele, kodwa zenze intombazana ibonakale ibe yintombi.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, le mpahla ayinakuthathwa nje ngekhaya. Ingubo eboyiweyo nephunga yinto ebalulekileyo kakhulu, umzekelo kwibhantshi. Ukuphuma emanzini, kuya kuba lula ngakumbi ukuphosa ingubo phezu kwakho, kunokuba uhlale uhlawula ithawula. Kodwa ekuhambeni ngesitimela uya kufumana isambatho sokugqoka nge-zipper.
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