Ukubhaliswa kwintsana

Xa umntwana ezalwa, abazali bakhe bajamelana nemiba emininzi yomthetho. Omnye wabo ubhaliso lomntwana osandula. Njengomthetho, amaninzi omama kunye nootata abathinteli ngokubaluleka kulo mbandela de bafanele bajongane ngokuthe ngqo. Ziziphi iimpepha ezifunekayo ukuze ubhalise usana olutsha? Ziyiphi imigaqo yobhaliso lwasemntwaneni? Le nkqubo ihamba njani? Ukubhalisa umntwana osanda kuzalwa ngokukhawuleza kwaye kulula, abazali abazayo mabafumane iimpendulo kuzo zonke le mibuzo ngaphambili.

Yintoni oyifunayo ukubhalisa usana olutsha?

Okokuqala, abazali kufuneka balungiselele onke amaxwebhu afanelekileyo. Ngokomthetho obhaliso lwabemi ngokubhalisa umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa, kuyimfuneko:

• isatifikethi sokuzalwa somntwana. Isatifikethi sokuzalwa somntwana sikhutshwe kwi-Ofisi yeRejistri ngesiseko sesatifikethi esibhedlele sokubeletha, iipaspoti zabazali kunye nesatifiketi somtshato wabo. Ixesha lokufumana isatifikethi sokuzalwa yinyanga enye. Ukuba ngaba abazali abanalo ixesha lokubhalisa umntwana wabo ngexesha, baya kufuneka bahlawule ixabiso;
• amaxwebhu aqinisekisa ubungqina babazali - iipasipoti zabo.

Ngokwemigaqo yokubhaliswa kwintsana, umntwana unokumiselwa kwindawo yokuhlala yobawo okanye unina. Ukuba ngaba abazali abanalo umntwana, ngoko unokubhaliswa kwindawo yokuhlala yomgcini. Ekubeni babazali, umntwana angabhaliswa kuphela nabo. Ngako oko, ukubhaliswa kosana olusandul 'unina kumnye onxulumene naye akunakwenzeka.

1. Ukubhalisa umntwana osanda kuzalwa kumama. Ukubhalisa umntwana osanda kuzalwa kumama, isitatimende sakhe siyimfuneko. Ukuba ngaphezulu kweenyanga sele kudlulile ukususela ekuzalweni komntwana, ngoko ngaphezu kokusetyenziswa komama, isatifikethi esivela kwindawo yokuhlala yokuhlala kayise siyadingeka. Iintsana ukuya kwinyanga zichazwe kuphela ngesiseko sokusetyenziswa komama.
2. Ukubhaliswa kosana olusandul 'ubaba. Xa ubhalisa umntwana osanda kuzalwa kunye nonina, ingxelo ebhaliweyo evela kumama iyadingeka.

Impawu yobhaliso lwangsana:

• Abazali banelungelo lokubhalisa encinane kwendawo yabo yokuhlala ngaphandle kwemvume yamanye amalungu entsapho;
• Ngokuya kwenkqubo yokubhaliswa kwintsana ngenxa yale nkqubo, ubukho bobabini abazali buyimfuneko;
• ukubhaliswa kwexeshana kwenye indawo ephilayo, akufuneki ukuba ubhale phantsi kwindawo ebhalisiweyo. Ukubhalisa okwesikhashana umntwana kunoma yiphina indawo yokuhlala inokwenzeka kuphela nonina;
• Abazali banelungelo lokubhalisa umntwana wabo ngenxaxheba yiphina impahla ephantsi kwipropati yabo.

Ngokomthetho okhoyo, imigaqo yobhaliso lwasemntwaneni ayisiswanga. Ngaloo ndlela, Ngaloo ndlela, abazali banelungelo lokumisela umntwana wabo naliphi na ixesha. Nangona kunjalo, akukhuthazwa ukuba kulibazise ukubhaliswa kwintsana. Umthetho unika uxanduva lolawulo lokumkelwa kwabantu ngaphandle kokubhalisa kwindawo yabo yokuhlala. Lo mthetho usebenza kubantu baluphi na ubudala, kuquka nabantwana abatsha. Kule nkalo, abazali abangabhalanga umntwana wabo, ingozi yokuhlawula ixabiso lokungabikho kobhaliso lwasemntwaneni.

Amaxwebhu okuqala omntwana - eli sihlandlo esihle kakhulu kubazali ukuba balungiselele iholide yentsapho encinane. Kwaye emva koko sinokuthi ngokuzithemba ukuba ngoku kuvele ummi omtsha kwilizwe lethu.