Yimangalisa njengoko kubonakala ngathi, kunzima ukhethe izipho zabantu abasondeleyo. Esi sisipho kumama ngomhla wam wokuzalwa kufuneka ndiphule intloko yam. Yintoni angayinika yona - cela isiphi isipho ayenokukuthanda ukukhumbula okanye uzame ukuqagela? Konke kuxhomekeke kwimeko yomama wakho - ukuba isetyenziselwa ukuthetha ngokuthe ngqo ngeminqweno yakhe, ngoko uya kufumanisa into ayifunayo njengesipho. Kodwa ukuba unyoko uthobekile okanye uthanda izinto ezimangalisayo, kuya kufuneka uzicabange ngesiphi isipho onokuyenza kumama wakho ngosuku lokuzalwa kwakhe. Ewe, ukwenza izinto zibe lula kuwe, nakhu iingcamango ezimbalwa zezipho zomama.
Yintoni engcono ukunika umama?
Ukucinga malunga nento engcono kunika umama, sihlala sincike ngomhla - isiganeko somkhosi okanye umhla wokuzalwa. Ngomhla wokugubha esizama ukukhetha into enamandla kwaye ibiza kakhulu. Kodwa le ndlela ayisoloko iyinyaniso-kaninzi isipho esingabizi kangangoko umama ungcono, kuba uqikelele ukuba ufuna, okanye ukumangaliswa kwangaphambili, okanye ngenxa yokuba ubeke isipho. Ngoko kungcono ukuhlawula ingqalelo kwixabiso lesipho, kodwa kumxholo walo. Khumbula, mhlawumbi uthe wathanda ukuba uthenge, kodwa ngandlela-thile izandla zakhe azifikeleli, okanye uyazi ukuba izibuko zakhe zewayini zithandekile, okuya kuba yinto efanelekileyo yokuthatha indawo. Ukuba ezo zinkumbulo azikho, ngoko unokucinga ngesipho esingaqhelekanga kumama wokuzalwa kwakhe. Cinga ngezi ngcamango zesipho esilandelayo.
- I-albhamu yesithombe, kodwa ayilula, kodwa ngeefoto zakhe ezithandayo. Isithombeni ngasinye sinokunikezelwa ngeenkcazo, izimvo, kakuhle, i-albhamu ngokwayo ingahlobisa. Ungaphinde ukopishe i-albhamu kwi diski. Makhe umama abe nakho ukujonga iifoto kwikhompyutheni.
- Umhla wokuzalwa, ogujwa ekhaya, ngokuqinisekileyo iholide, kodwa kunye nomthwalo omkhulu wintombazana yokuzalwa - kwaye kufuneka uzilungiselele ngokufanelekileyo uze ulungiselele izidlo ezidliwayo. Nceda umama wakho, thabathe isabelo esiphekiweyo, vumela isidlo sesidlo sibe sesipho sakhe. Into ephambili akuyikuvumela ukuba umgubho wembhiyozo kulungelelanise iholide.
- Ukuba umama wakho uyakuthanda izilwanyana, kodwa ude ufumene isilwanyana akazange akhuphe, akunike yona. Kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, kunye nesipho esibukhomayo kufuneka unikeze zonke izixhobo ezifanelekileyo kunye nokutya.
- Unokuqeshisa i-movie njengesipho kumama wakho. Kwaye abadlali baya kuba ngabahlobo kunye neentsapho, kumsebenzi wabo baya kuxela intombazana yokuzalwa malunga nalezi zikhumbuzo (ezilungileyo, ziko) ezihambelana nayo. Ingxaki enkulu kunokuthi ungathuli ngesipho kuze kube yinto yokubhiyozela kakhulu, ukuze ividiyo ibe yinto emangalisayo.
- Unyoko unomdla womculo, kwaye xa eva iingoma zobutsha bakhe, iinyembezi zibonakala emehlweni akhe? Mnike iCD ngeengoma zakho ozithandayo. Ungayithenga njengeqoqo elenziwe ngokufanelekileyo, kwaye wenze lesi sipho kumama wakho ngezandla zakho. Ngezizathu ezicacileyo, ukhetho lwesibini lukhethwayo. Kwaye kwidiski ngokwayo unako ukubeka isithombe sikamama wakho, kwaye wenze iqabunga elikhulu, njengekhadi lokubulisa.
- Ukuba unyoko awunamdla kwizinto zokugqoka, mnike lona. Yenza nje umhlobiso womntu siqu, cela umlobi ukuba ufake ngaphakathi kwintetho ibinzana lakho umama ekujonga ngayo isiqubulo okanye efuna nje ukuzalwa.
Ziziphi iintyatyambo ezinika unina?
Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba asikho kuphela isipho esibalulekileyo, kodwa nendlela ogqiba ngayo ukwenza. Unyoko wakho, ngokuqinisekileyo, uya kuvuya ngamazwi anomnene oza kubonisa, njengendlela yokufaka isipho esihle, kodwa akufanele uyilibale ngeentyatyambo. Ukuba unyoko uneentyantyambo apho unomdla okhethekileyo, yonke into iyilula, umnike ngqo.
- amabhinqa amabhinqa kwimihla ngemihla ayinaso ukukhanya okwaneleyo kunye novuyo, ngoko bahlala bekhetha i-chrysanthemums, iinduli kunye nee-roses eziphuzi;
- Amantombazana adonayo imvelo aya kuvuyiswa ngama-chamomiles, irises, i-gerberas kunye neengqolowa zengqolowa;
- Abahlali bezindlu basoloko bengabandakanyeli i-tulips;
- Abathandi bezemidlalo baya kufumana iziqhamo ze-roses, i-orchids okanye iindlebise ukuncoma kubalo babo obuncinane;
- Abafazi beemiboniso ezilondolozayo baya kukhetha iiresi zasemasimini, i-chrysanthemums kunye ne-gerberas;
- Ewe, abantu abalungileyo bafuna ukufumana iziqhamo ezinama-roses ezinexesha elide kunye neentyatyambo.