Mhlawumbi, bonke abantu ebomini babenokuhlukana okunzima, emva koko umthandayo akaphumi entloko yakhe ixesha elide. Akayikushiya nje ingcamango yakhe, kodwa iphinda ibonakale ngamaphupha. Kwiimeko ezinje, abaninzi banombuzo wokuba kutheni umntu owayemthandayo ephupha kwaye oko kuthetha ntoni? Kwezinye iimeko, oku kukubonakalisa nje uxinzelelo olunzima , kwaye ngamanye amaxesha amaphupha anjalo ayingcaciso malunga nekamva.
Kutheni iphupha lomntu owayeyintanda?
Kukho ulwazi lokuba amaphupha angumsebenzi we-subconscious, kwaye ngohlalutyo olufanelekileyo umntu unokuziqonda. Izazinzulu emva kokuvavanya ziye zagqiba ukuba xa amantombazana ehlala kunye namadoda, amaphupha abo babesandulana nabo bafanelekile. Iingcali zengqondo zithi ixhaphake ukuba amaphupha malunga nomntu owayengumthandi ngumqondiso ocinga ukuba uyawuthanda kwaye uyasithanda kuphela into efanelekileyo kwaye ngokwenene yonke into yimeko yowesifazane. Iingcali zithi xa iingqondo zipholile phantsi, amaphupha aya kulahla ngokwawo.
Iimbono zabavumbuli beenkwenkwezi, yintoni eyayiyithandayo ngaphambili?
Kukho ezininzi ukuchazwa kwamaphupha anjalo, okuya kunceda ukufunda ngekamva. Ngokuqhelekileyo ukubonakala kwabaxhatshazi beliphupha kubonisa ukuba iziganeko zexesha elidlulileyo azivumeli ubomi obutsha buqale kwaye buzaliseke. Ukuba kwimibono yasebusuku intombazana yaphinde yahlukana nomntu owayengumthandi - oko kuyingqungquthela yolwazi olutsha. Iphupha apho ukuxabana kwenzeka khona kukubonakaliswa kakuhle, kubonisa utshintsho oluhle ebomini bakho.
Kuya kuba lunomdla ukwazi ukuba yiyiphi iphupha lokumangala nomthandayo. Isalathiso esinjalo sithetha ukuba kwikamva elikufutshane uza kufuneka umangaliswe ngenxa yeemeko eziye zavela. Yenza uthando ephupheni