Nangona izazinzulu sele zikwazi ukuphikisa ezininzi iimpawu ezidlulileyo, abanye abantu bayaqhubeka begcina izinto ezithile kwaye bayakholelwa kwiinkolelo-ze . Bathetha ukuba oku akusiyo into elula, kodwa ulwazi oluqokelelwe ngokuqwalasela. Ngexesha elidlulileyo, babenomdla ngakumbi ngeemeko apho nayiphi na inxalenye yomzimba iqalisa ukutshisa okanye ukutshabalalisa, ngoko ke imiqondiso yale nto isasaziwa kakhulu.
Kuloo nto indlebe ekhohlo ivuthayo?
AmaSlavs asekudala ayekholelwa ukuba yonke into enxulumene necala elingakwesobunxele ayinakonakala, ngoko ke ukugqithisa kunye nomsindo ovuthayo kwindawo yendlebe ukusuka kulolu cala yi-harbinger yeengxaki ezahlukeneyo. Xa "umlilo" entendeni yesobunxele ivela ngokukhawuleza, kuthetha ukuba ngelixa abanye abantu bathetha ngento embi malunga nomntu, mhlawumbi bayayichitha inkohliso okanye bayigxeke ngezenzo ezenziwe okanye amazwi athetha ngaphambili. Ukuba aqala nje ukutshisa indlebe, kodwa kunye nolunye uhlobo lwe-malaise luvalelwa - oku kuyilumkiso esiqatha ukuba okwangoku umntu ugxeke aze athumele amandla angenawo amandla, kwaye oku kubangela ukungahambi emzimbeni. Kule meko, indlebe ebomvu ngumqondiso wokuba umntu ufanele ukukhusela, umzekelo, umntu unokufunda umthandazo okanye awele.
Abaninzi banomdla, ukuba indlebe engasekhohlo ayitshwenyeli, ithetha ntoni. Oku kungabonakalisa ukuba umntu osondelene nezihlobo okanye abahlobo bakukhankanyileyo kwingxoxo, kodwa ningakhathazeki, kuba ukulungiswa okuncinane kubonisa ukuba oku kwenzeka ngendlela enhle.
Ukuchazwa kwemiqondiso kuxhomekeke kwiintsuku zeveki
Ukuze uthole ulwazi olongezelelweyo, kufuneka uqwalasele ngexesha elithile ukubonakala komlilo kwindawo ekhohlo yentloko kubonakala. Okokuqala, qwalasela umhla weveki:
- Okokuqala, siza kuqonda ukuba yintoni indlebe ekhohlo ivutha ngoMsombuluko - ingaba yi-harbinger yokufikelela kwimeko yokuxabana nabanye abantu, kwaye oku kuza kwenzeka ngokungalindelekanga kunye nesizathu esingenangqiqo. Ukuba awuphendulanga xa ushukunyiswa, ingxabano iya kugqiba ngokukhawuleza.
- Ukuba "umlilo" wavela ngoLwesibili, ngoko ufanele ulindele ukuba uyingxenye nomntu othandekayo. Xa lo mhla kukho ukuphazamiseka okubukhali kwindlebe ekhohlo, kunokuthathwa njengengcebiso, ukuba kulungele ukuzama ukukhulula uxinzelelo kunye nokuphucula ubudlelwane nabanye.
- Sifunda oko kwindlebe engasekhohlo iyatshisa ngoLwesithathu - iyintambo yomhlangano ongalindelekanga, ekugqibeleni uya kuba mnandi. Mhlawumbi umhla nomntu owawubaluleke kakhulu kwixesha elidlulileyo.
- Ixesha lokuba ufunde oko indlebe ekhohlo ivuthayo ngoLwesine - ungakhathazeki, kuba olo tshintsho emzimbeni kule ndawo lithembisa iindaba ezilungileyo. Sekunjalo ingaba isimemo sokwamkela isipho esimnandi.
- Kubalulekile ukwazi kunye nantoni ekhohlo etshabayo ngoLwesihlanu - isilathisi esinjalo senyama singathathwa njengesinconywa, ukuba kulungile ukuthatha ixesha lokubonakala kwakho ukujonga i-100%, njengento ekhangeleyo kulindeleke.
- Kuya kuba luncedo ukwazi oko kutshayo kunye nokutshixa indlebe ekhohlo
ngoMgqibelo, ngoko kufuneka ulindele iindaba ezimbi. Kwixesha elizayo elizayo, iingxaki ezingalindelekanga kunye neengxaki ezinokuvela. - Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, siya kuqonda ukuba yintoni indlebe ekhohlo ivutha ngeCawa - yinto yokubamba inzuzo. Kuba abantu abaqhuba ishishini "umlilo" kwintsimi yeendlebe ezisekhohlo bathembisa ukubhaliswa kwekontileka enenzuzo.
Kuthetha ukuthini xa indlebe ekhohlo itshisa ngokwesayensi?
Ukubomvu kweendlebe kudla ngokuba ngenxa yokuba umntu uyethusa okanye ukhathazekile okwangoku. Ukuphazamiseka okunjalo ezindlebeni kungenzeka ngokutshintsha okubukhali kumbindi, ngokomzekelo, ukuba umntu uvela kwiqabunga kwigumbi elifudumeleyo.