Izambatho zokuphuma

Iminyaka edlula, iindlela ezintsha kunye nezitayela zivela kwimoya, kodwa ezinye izinto zihlala zingatshintshi. Akukho nto eyenza owesifazane abe mfihlelo kwaye abe nenhle kuneengubo. Ngokukodwa xa usibeka kwixesha elikhethekileyo. Emva koko, ebomini nganye intombazana kukho izibhengezo ezithile. Oku kunokuba ngumcimbi ongenakulibaleka kwaye othabisayo, omele ulungiswe ngokucophelela. Kwaye okokuqala kuluhlu lweemeko ezizayo ngokuqinisekileyo luya kukhethwa kweengubo kwiindlela zokuphuma kunye nezixhobo ezifanelekileyo.

Indlela yokukhetha ingubo?

Izambatho zabafazi besimo esihle kakhulu

Kukho imigaqo emininzi engabonakaliyo ekufuneka ilandelwe kumantombazana enemilo emangalisayo xa ukhetha ingubo yokuphuma. Ukukhetha iimveliso ngaphantsi kweedolo.

Izigqoko zomtshato

Kwaye, ke, asikwazi ukushiya iingubo zokugcoba esi siganeko esinjengomtshato. Umtshakazi ngaphambi kokubhiyozelwa konke kuhamba phambili ekuqeqesheni, kwaye yintoni ebaluleke ngakumbi kunokuba akhethe ingubo apho aya kukhanya khona kwiqela lakhe? Ngokukodwa apha abaqulunqi kunye nee-workshop banikezela ngokugqithisa kakhulu imibala, imilo kunye nemihlobiso. Eyona nto idume kakhulu ngo-2013 iingubo zokutshata ezininzi. Baya guquka nayiphi na intombazana ibe yinkosikazi yangempela, oya kuguqula intloko kungekhona kuphela kumyeni.

Ukukhetha iingubo ezifanelekileyo yinkqubo enzima kunye neyinkimbinkimbi, kodwa kholwani mna, umphumo unokugqitha konke okulindelweyo. Kufuneka nje umgudu omncinane.