Kulungile, xa umlindi wakho othembekileyo engamvumeli ukuba abantu abasolisayo badlulele kwifa kwaye baxhaphale amasela ukuba adlule indlu ngeqela. Kodwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo inja ibonisa inzondelelo eninzi, lonke ixesha likhawuleza kungekho sizathu esithile, kubangela iingxaki ezininzi kungekhona kubanikazi kuphela, kodwa isithili sonke. Ukujongana nale ndlela yokuziphatha kwezilwanyana akulula. Abanye bazama ukunyamezela ngokunyanisekileyo isilwanyana, bahlambe ngeenqweno, bazibethe baze baziphoqe ukuba banqande abantu abadlulayo. Abanye abazange bahlale bengaqhelananga kwaye bahambe kwiisongelo zokubetha, kodwa iziphumo ezinjalo azivumi ukuzisa uxolo olude. Siza kuzama ukuqonda isizathu salo mkhuba wezilwanyana kunye nokunika iingcebiso ezifanelekileyo.
Kutheni inja igxotha abantu abadlulayo?
Hayi njalo le nto ibonisa inkalipho yomlindi othembekileyo, kaninzi ngokuncedisa ukukhupha izilwanyana kubonisa ukwesaba okubangelwa izandi ezingaqhelekanga emva kodonga okanye kwitalato. Ukuba inja izama ukunyusa iindlebe, cindezela umsila uze uyifihle xa umfokazi esondela kwisithintelo, ngoko ibonisa iimpawu eziqakathekileyo zesabalo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ubukho bokuba abantu bakho banciphisa isilwanyana, kwaye xa usesekhaya, akubonisi ukuxhalaba. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba bonke baye emsebenzini, njengoko ukuziphatha kwezilwanyana ziguqulwa, kwaye yena, ngenxa yokwesaba okanye ngaphandle komnqweno wokubiza umninimzi, uzisa ibakala lakhe kulo lonke ummandla ngokukhawuleza kwinqanaba lokuvutha.
Isizathu sesibini sokuqhubela phambili kwizinja ngumzamo wokulawula, obonakalisa okokuqala ngethuba lokutshintsha iminyaka. Yonke indawo kufuneka ive inkokheli yentsapho kwikamva. Ukuqhayisa ngokuphindaphindiweyo kuthetha ukuba isilwanyana sinesidlo sokutya, sidakwa, sidlale, ngokufanayo, sithatha ingqwalasela yemikhosi kumntu wabo.
Indlela yokuxhamla inja ukuze igxothe abadlulileyo?
Indlela efanelekileyo yokujongana nalo msebenzi kukufundisa isilwanyana ukuba sishiye ilizwi kwiqela. I-Irritants ingasetyenziswa ngokuhlukileyo. Izilwanyana zivuma ngokukhawuleza xa zibona isitya kunye nokudla okuthandayo, umdlalo ozithandayo, zivuyiswa xa zithatha isikhephe esifutshane okanye sisitye. Ngethuba lo msebenzi, nikela umyalelo othi "Izwi!" Ukudibanisa neentsimbi. Ukupheliswa kwezwi kufuneka kudibaniswe nemiyalelo ethi "Quiet!", "Foo!" Okanye "Ukuthula!". Kuyinto enqwenelekayo ukukhuthaza intlanzi yezilwanyana kunye nezifundo ziya kuqiniswa ngakumbi.
Ingxolo entlangeni nayo inomsindo oqinileyo, apha