Ngokuqinisekileyo nayiphi na intombazana, ethatha imbali yeentyantyambo ezimhlophe kwisithandwa sayo, ufumana unonwabo oluqhelekileyo kwinto enjalo.
Nangona kunjalo, kule meko, sisoloko sicinga malunga nokuba kutheni abantu banike iirase ezimhlophe nokuba ngaba banganikwa na? Kwaye oku kulungelelaniswa ngokupheleleyo, kuba, njengoko uyazi, intyatyambo nganye inayo "iinqaba" zayo, iimpawu ezibonakalisa iimvakalelo neemvakalelo. Kungenxa yezi zinto ezifihlakeleyo kunye nemiba esiza kuxoxa ngayo kwinqaku lethu.
Yintoni i-chrysanthemums emhlophe enika yona?
Ukuba umthandi wakuvakalisa isimangalo ngendlela yesigqabi okanye iqela leentyatyambo ezintle, ngoko lo mntu unemiva enyanisekileyo kuwe. Abaninzi bayayikhetha ukwenza isipho sesandla kunye nentliziyo, kuba i-chrysanthemum ithathwa njengentyantyambo yasebukhosini, izalise amandla abalulekileyo kwaye ibonisa uthando luthando, ubuhlungu beemvakalelo, ukunyaniseka, ubuqaqawuli, injabulo kunye nobomi obude.
Ziyini na iinduli ezimhlophe?
Ngokwalo, igama leentyatyambo, sele livusa iintlangano kunye nento ezukileyo kwaye ecaciswe. Iinduli ezimhlophe ezimhlophe zifuzisela ubunyulu, ubumsulwa kunye nokungabi namacala. Ukuba intombazana eyayifumana njengesipho esivela kule mihlaba emangalisayo yendalo, oku, mhlawumbi, uthetha ngokusondelana kunye nothando.
Kwakhona, iinduli ezimhlophe zigqibelele kwimichiza yemitshato, kwezinye iimeko, kaninzi kunikwa amantombazana amancinci.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuba umfana unikela iirase ezimhlophe?
Abaninzi abasandul 'ukutshata banokukhetha iirase ezimhlophe kwimifuno yomtshato. Ukufumana intombazana enjalo isipho sibonakalisa uvuyo, ukuncomeka nokunyamekela ummkeli walo. Umfana onika iirasi ezimhlophe ubonisa iimvakalelo ezinqabileyo kunye nokunyaniseka, ngaphandle kokuthandana kunye nobudlelwane obusondeleyo, kuphela ekumongeni ubuhle kunye nokumncoma wakhe okhethiweyo.