Ulwakhiwo lwegumbi lomntwana ebusheni linempawu ezithile. Okokuqala, ixhathisa utshintsho oluzenzekelayo kwiimfuno zomntwana wakho: ukuba ngaphambili wayesweleka kubantwana, ngoku ufuna ifenitshala yeselula , isebenze ngakumbi kwaye iqikelele. Ukongezelela, eli lixesha lixesha elifanelekileyo lokunika umntwana inkululeko kwaye amvumele ukuba athathe inxaxheba kwindlela yakhe yokwakha, elula kakhulu ukuyenza kunye nefenitshala yefomula kwikamelo eliselula .
Ifenitshala yeselula
Iyintoni ifenitshala yeemodyuli ezisakhulayo? Le yinkqubo yonke yabadwebi abahlukeneyo kunye namashalofu, iitafile kunye neebhedi zemfundo. Izibonelelo ezicacileyo ziyakwazi ukulungiselela nokudibanisa zonke ezi modyuli ngokuzimeleyo.
Ifenitshala yabantwana abaselula bayenziwe kwiinkomfa zemibala emininzi "yabantu abadala": oku akusekho imifanekiso ebonakalisiweyo kunye nehlekisayo kwiibhola zeekhabhinethi okanye iithalafu ngendlela yemithi. Yonke into elula apha kwaye ifenitshala ibonakala kakhulu njengomntu omdala. Khetha ukwakhiwa kwefenitshala kunye nendawo yayo inokuthi umntwana ngokwakhe, kwaye abazali mababekele ingqalelo kwezinye iindawo. Xa uthengela ifenitshala yeemodyuli ezisakhulayo, qiniseka ukuqwalasela oku kulandelayo:
- Okokuqala, ifenitshala kufuneka isebenze: ngeli thuba, kuthatha ixesha elide lokufunda, ngoko kufuneka uxhobise indawo yokusebenzela ekhululekile kunye nendawo yokuphumla;
- nayiphi na ifenitshala, ukuzaliswa kwayo ngokufanelekileyo, kufuneka ibe yindlela elula ukugcina umyalelo, obalulekileyo kule nqanaba lokuphuhliswa kwabantwana;
- khumbula kwaye malunga nokuyila ifenitshala: ungagxininisi ekukhethweni kwakho, vumela umntwana wakho ukuba azibonele iinjongo zakhe ukuba azive ekhululekile.
Uhlobo oluthile lwefenitshala yefenitshala yeselula lunokulungileyo kuba ngexesha elide umntwana wakho uya kukwazi ukukwenza uphinde uhlaziye igumbi lakho. Ngokuphathelele izinto zokuvelisa, apha yonke imigaqo yokukhetha ifenitshala yomntwana ihlala yendabuko.
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