Idumela loshishino kunye nomfanekiso yile nkcazelo yokuqala eyabalingani bakho, abaxhasi nabaqeshi. Yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukwazi iinqununu zomfanekiso weshishini, kunye nokuqonda imigaqo-siseko kunye neendlela zokwenza udumo nomfanekiso wezobugcisa bokwenene.
Kule nqaku siza kuthetha ngomfanekiso weshinqa lorhwebo .
Ukuziphatha kunye nomfanekiso womntu webhishini
Umxholo weshishini lomsebenzi wabonakala ngokutsha nje - eli gama lavela kwisiqingatha sesibini senkulungwane yeshumi leminyaka. Ngethuba elifanayo, uphando lokuqala loompembelelo womfanekiso kunye nesitayela somsebenzi wezoshishino kwimpumelelo yezoshishino zakhe zaqala. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukubaluleka komfanekiso wabangaphandle kubamashishini bezopolitiko, abapolitiki kunye namanani aseburhulumenteni beyaziwa kakhulu ngaphambili - sele sele ku-Middle Ages uNicollo Machiavelli ulungele emisebenzini yakhe ukubaluleka kokwenza umsebenzi ohambelana nomfanekiso ("masks", "ubuso"). Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba umsebenzi womfanekiso ukudala ingcamango efanelekileyo kwaye ugxininise iimpawu zakho ezilungileyo, kwaye ungabonakali ukungabikho kobugcisa, ukunyaniseka okanye ukungabikho kwemigaqo yokuziphatha, kuba kungekudala okanye inyaniso ivuleka, kwaye akukho mfanekiso uza kusindisa kwi-stigma ye-hypocrite ne-swindler.
Umxhelo kunye nomfanekiso womfazi weshishini unxibelelwano olungenakulinganiswa. Emva kwakho konke, ukwenza uxwebhu olufanelekileyo kwiintsebenziswano zamashishini okanye ngabaxumi, awuyi kufuna nje kuphela izakhono zobugcisa, kodwa kunye nekhono "lokuzithoba", ukuziphatha ngendlela emphakathini, kwiziganeko ezisemthethweni, ukutya, imibhiyozo yenkampani.
Indlela yokudala umfanekiso womntu webhishini?
Umfanekiso weshishini wesetyhini uquka amacandelo amaninzi:
- isibheno sangaphandle. Izambatho ezikhethiweyo kakuhle, iinwele, ukwakheka, ukubonakala kakuhle-konke oku kuncedisa ukwakheka komfanekiso ongaphandle;
- ubugcisa. Ulwazi lwezobugcisa kunye nezakhono ezisebenzayo kwintsimi yomsebenzi wezakhono nazo ziyingxenye ebalulekileyo yomfanekiso. Akunakwenzeka ukugcina umfanekiso wesithinjana se shishini ixesha elide, usebenzisa ukubonakala kunye nenkohliso kuphela;
- umoya wangaphakathi. Ubumnene, ukuqonda, ukunyamekela abanye, ukunyamezela - ezi zinto zikunceda ukukhawuleza "ukuthululela" kwindawo efanelekileyo yoluntu, ukuseka ubudlelwane obusondeleyo kunye nokwazisa abantu;
- intetho kunye nemikhwa. Umgangatho ophezulu wezakhono kufuneka akwazi ukuthetha nabantu, bayazi imithetho ye-etiquette aze alandele. Kakade ke, iingcali zecandelo elongezelelweyo liyakwazi ukunyaniseka, kodwa imisebenzi yazo iya kuba yimpumelelo kakhulu xa ikhokelwa yimimiselo yokuziphatha ngokuqhelekileyo;
- entourage. Ukubaluleka kwezinto ezincedisayo, iinkcukacha ezincinci kunye nangaphakathi kweofisi okanye kwikhabhinethi ayikho ngaphantsi kokubaluleka kwamanye amacandelo omfanekiso. Emva koko, ngokusekelwe kwiimpawu zeofisi yenkampani, abathengi kunye namaqabane abo bafumana izigqibo malunga nempumelelo yayo, ukusebenza kakuhle nokuthembeka;
- biography. Kubonakala ngathi unokutshintsha kwimbali yakho yobomi? Awukwazi ukubuyisela ixesha elidlulileyo, kodwa ungakhethi abazali kunye nezihlobo. Okwangoku, umntu osomashishini unelungelo lokukhetha okokufihla kwixesha lakhe elidlulileyo kunye nokokukubonisa uluntu ukuba alingwe.
Ukudala umfanekiso weshishini, intombazana kufuneka kuqala okokuqala ikukhumbule imfuneko yokuhambelana nendawo yangaphandle, yangaphakathi neyengcali. Akusiyo yonke ixesha ukugqoka isambatho somnyama omnyama, ohlaza okwesibhakabhaka okanye wegrey. Ukuba awuqinisekanga ngamandla akho ukudala umfanekiso wangaphandle - qha ga mshelana nophando lomfanekiso okanye umenzi womfanekiso ukuze ucebise. Into ephambili ukuba ufanele uyibeke ingqalelo xa ukhetha iimpahla yikhowudi yokugqoka yenkampani yakho kunye nohlobo lwakho lokubonakala. Khetha imibala engama-5-7, kunye nemibala eyongezelelweyo engu-4-5. Ukudibanisa ndawonye kunye nokudala ukudibanisa ezahlukeneyo, uya kukwazi ukuhlala ukhangeleka ngokutsha kunye nefestile, ngexesha elinye, ngaphandle kokuhamba ngaphaya kwesi sikhokelo somsebenzi weshishini.
Imizekelo yesambatho esinceda ukwakha umfanekiso weshishini okhangayo, unokubona kwigalari yethu.
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