Kutheni abantwana bakha izipikili zabo?

Kwenzeka ukuba abantwana basezikolweni eziprayimari banomkhuba omubi-bebamba izipikili zabo. Ngokwezibalo, abafundi abaneminyaka engama-7 kuya kwe-10 banokuthi bahlupheke kule nto. Nangona lo mkhuba uqhelekileyo phakathi kwabantwana basenkulisa kunye nabantu abadala.

Yiyiphi imiphumo enokuba khona xa umntwana ebopha izipikili ezandleni zakhe?

• Okokuqala, kusuka kule nto kwiminwe ibonakala i- burrs kunye namaxeba, aphikisayo kwaye avuleleke kwiintsholongwane, angakhokelela nokuxhaswa;
• Okwesibini, kunye nezandla ezingcolileyo kunye nezipikili, ukungcola, iintsholongwane ze-pathogenic zingangena emlonyeni womntwana, kunokukhuphaza nokubonakala kweempethu;
• Okwesithathu, izikhonkwane eziqhawulayo - zibi kwaye zingabonakali.

Makhe sicinge malunga nokuba kutheni abantwana bebetha izipikili zabo ngezandla zabo, kwaye qwalasela izizathu eziphambili zezi:

1. Isizathu esiqhelekileyo sisengqondweni :

• umntwana angaluma imilenze yakhe ekungakhuselekeni ngamandla akhe. Oku kuchaza ukuba kutheni abantwana abaninzi bechaphazeleka yilo mkhuba, ngokuqala ngexesha leminyaka, xa uvavanyo luqala, kufuneka uqhubeke nezifundo, ukuhlangabezana nokulindelwa kootitshala nabazali, njl.
• Ukuxhalaba, nokuba nobudlova kunye nomsindo kungabangela iimbambo zeembambo. Imvakalelo enjalo inokuvela xa intsapho inesimo sengqondo esichukumisayo: abazali bahlala befunga, bafuna abantwana, bavame ukusebenzisa isijeziso somzimba ngenxa yezifundo zemfundo, njl. ukuba kukho iingxaki ekuxoxaneni noontanga; ukuba umntwana uye wandisa ukuphikisana kwangaphakathi, njl.;

Ngoko, ukuze unqume indlela yokululela ngayo le mkhuba, kufuneka uqale uqonde ukuba kutheni abantwana bebethela izipikili zabo ngezandla zabo. Emva koko, unokwenza isigqibo malunga nezenzo ezingaphezulu.

Kuthekani ukuba umntwana uyabamba eminwe?

1. Kufuneka kuthiwe akufanelekanga ngexesha lokugxekwa kwaye rhoqo ukwenza amazwana, akunakukunceda. Kufuneka ube nomonde.
2. Ukuba imbangela yomkhwa omubi ungokwengqondo, ngoko ke umsebenzi omde kakhulu kufuneka ukwenziwa, kuba kuyimfuneko ukuqonda ukuba umbuzo uphazamise umntwana, yintoni imvakalelo ebangela nokuba uyilungise njani. Ngamanye amaxesha, ndize ndiphendule kumathambo.
3. Ukuba le yinkinga yomzimba, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukutshintsha umkhwa wokubamba izipikili kunye nolunye-ukunyamekela. Vumela umntwana abe nefayile yeekhonkco kunye naye. Le ntombazana inokunikela ukuba wenze izipikili kunye nokuzikhusela.
4. Ukuba umntwana akaqapheli kwakhona indlela yokutsala iminwe emlonyeni wakhe, unokuza kunye nemiqondiso ekhethekileyo eya kwaziwa kuphela kuwe. Ngokomzekelo, uya kutyhawula ngokukhawuleza xa ubona ukuziphatha okufanelekileyo, okanye ufune impumlo yakho, okanye uhlasele umntwana wakho ngasemva.

Kwimeko nayiphi na into, kubalulekile ukubeka ingqwalasela yomntwana kwinto yokuba le mkhuba inobungozi kwimpilo. Bonisa ukuba izipikili ezilumkileyo zikhangelekile.