Ngokuqinisekileyo, wonke ummeli wesini esilungileyo uhlala ehlanjululwa ngcamango yendlela yokuba yindoda enhle kunoko ngoku. Oku kuyaqondakala, kuba kungokwemvelo ukuba amantombazana afune ukubukeka ekhangelekile, kuba ukuba amadoda ayamangaliswa ngamandla awo, ngoko ke abafazi bahle kakhulu. Kodwa ukuba kube mnandi akusoloko kulula njengoko kubonakala, kwaye abafazi bayazi kakuhle kakuhle. Emva kwakho konke, akunakwenzeka ukuba ube mhle ngexesha elifanayo, kufuneka uzinakekele. Ngoko makhe sijonge ngakumbi indlela yokuba yinto enhle kunye noko kufuneka uyenze kuqala.
Indlela yokuba yizinto ezilungileyo - iingcebiso
- Khumbula ukuba impendulo yombuzo othi "ukukhawuleza ukuba ube mnandi?" Ngaba enye kuphela-uphando lweplastiki, kunye nezinye, iindlela ezincinci, zithatha ixesha. Ukongeza, ukwenza, umzekelo, umzimba wakho, kufuneka uyenze ngokuchanekileyo, kwaye kungekhona ngexesha elide. Akukho nto inikwe ngokulula, ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngokukhawuleza.
- Ngendlela, malunga nomfanekiso. Kubalulekile ukwabela imihla ngemizuzu embalwa ubuncinci ukuhlawulisa okokuqala, kwaye kungcono ukongeza kule nto ukusa kwantambama, kunye nokuhamba kwindawo yokudlala okanye echibini lokubhukuda. Kodwa ukuqala okwaneleyo ngokwaneleyo, into ephambili kukuba ukwenza njalo rhoqo. Yaye khumbula ukuba akufanele ube mncinci ukukhangeka, ufune ukugcina iliso kwaye uhlale unzima.
- Abaninzi banenkxalabo malunga nombuzo wokuba ube mhle ngaphandle kokwenza? Ngoku kuninzi inani lamantombazana enombono wokuthi ngaphandle kobuhle, awukwazi ukufezekisa ubuhle, kodwa awukwazi ukulibala ngokusingqongileyo ngokulula, kuba kukhangeleka. Ukongeza, amadoda amaninzi anqwenela ukuba ukwakheka kwakungangoko kunokwenzeka. Ukuze ube mnandi ngaphandle kwalo, unakekele ulusu lwakho, thola ukulala ngokwaneleyo ukuphepha imivimbo phantsi kwamehlo akho kunye nokubonakala "kwintambo".
- Zihlolisise. Yiya kumaziko e-spa, hamba ukuhlalisa umzimba, yenza imaski ehlaziyayo, i-manicure, pedicure ... Ibhinqa kufuneka lihlale libonakala ligqibeleleyo kwaye lilungele kakuhle.
- Soloko ugqoke ngesitayela. Musa ukushiya ikhaya lakho ekugqokeni iingubo okanye ngeengqondo ezingaqondakaliyo. Kuhlala kwenzeka ukuba udibana nesitrato inkosana efanayo, kodwa kuvela ukuba unamaqabunga agugile kunye nee-slippers ze-rubber. Umfazi wokwenene kufuneka ahlale ekhangeleka ukuba uvele nje ephuma kwiphepha lemagazini.
- Ukukhokela indlela yokuphila enempilo: yidla ngokufanelekileyo, hambani kakhulu, hamba kwendalo. Konke oku kuya kukunceda ukhangeleke ngokutsha kwaye uzive ulungile, oko kubalulekile.
- Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - zithande. Ukuba uthanda wena, ukuba uzonwabile wena ngokwakho, oko kuvakalelwa, kwaye abo bakuzungezile bayakuxolisa ngokuzithemba kuwe ngenxa yokuzithemba. Ukuba oko kukuzithemba, kunokuzimela.
Enyanisweni, akukho zifihli ezikhethekileyo zokuba zihle ngakumbi. Yonke into incike kuwe: kusuka kwiminqweno, kwiinjongo, nakubonothando.
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