Uninzi lwabazali babhiyozela isigxina sokuqala somntwana wabo. Sekudlule inyanga ezintandathu ukusuka ekuzalweni, kwaye umntwana ukhulile, ukhule ngamandla kwaye ufunda ihlabathi. Unomdla kwaye zonke izinto ezintsha zifunekayo. Kodwa izalamane ezininzi, xa zicinga ukuba zinikela umntwana iintsuku ezintandathu, zijongene nokukhetha okunzima. Ndifuna isipho efunekayo ukuba sisetyenziswe. Yintoni enokuba nayo?
Izipho abazali abazidinga
Ngokuqhelekileyo, izalamane zikhetha izinto ezenza ubomi bube lula kumama wabo:
- idiapers, iifutha ezimanzi, iifowuni zokuhlamba kunye nezonyango zabantwana;
- umqhubi , okhungeleleneyo, ohambahambayo okanye umtya wokukhwabanisa;
- izixhobo zasekhaya: i-blender, i juicer okanye i-multivark;
- iimpahla, eziza kufuneka umntwana afune imihla ngemihla nangaphezulu.
Isipho sesinyanga ezintandathu kumntwana, kuyimfuneko kuye
Ukuba ufuna ukukholisa umntwana, mnike amathoyizi. Kodwa kufuneka ukhethwe ngokuhambelana neminyaka yobudala: ama-rattles aphelile, kwaye iidodoli kunye neemoto zisasaqala kakhulu. Kulungele kule minyaka ukunika amathoyizi okuphuhlisa:
- Iipramidi zinceda ukuphuhlisa izakhono zam motor, abantwana bafunda ukuthelekisa nokwahlula imibala;
- imidlalo yokudlala njengabo bonke abantwana, kodwa khetha abo abangacacisi emva kokucindezela iqhosha, kodwa emva kokuba umntwana eshaqekayo, uyayicinezela okanye uyifake;
- le ncwadi isipho esona sihle kunazo zonke. Khetha iincwadi ezikhethekileyo zezingane ezineemifanekiso emikhulu, ebhetele kunakho konke-ukutshabalalisa;
- ukuphuhlisa amatshini, apho ungakhonka khona ixesha elide ukuba uthathe umntwana.
Ukukhetha oko kunika umntwana omncinci, qaphela ukukhuselwa kwamathoyizi. Akufanele iqule iincinci ezincinci, izinto ezivela kuyo, akufanele zivelise iphunga. Abantu abaninzi banokuqwalasela isini somntwana xa bekhetha isipho. Yintoni engcono ukunika umntwana intombazana? Oku kunokuba yi-nevalyashki, amathoyizi athobileyo okanye iimboli. Okucacileyo kwesipho kumntwana kwinkwenkwe kukuba ufuna iimpiramidi ezininzi, abenzi bemimoya kunye nabaqulunqi bamakhulu.