Unyaka omtsha yiholide ebaluleke kakhulu yonyaka, ebantwaneni bonke abalindeleyo. Umntwana ngamnye ukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza emthini wonyaka omtsha ekuseni, eyazi ngesipho phantsi kwalo. Ukukhetha ithoyizi njengesipho sonyaka omtsha akuyona into elula. Ngokuqinisekileyo, isipho esiNtshontsho sonyaka omtsha siya kumkholisa ngamnye umntwana, kodwa wenza ntoni ngenxalenye enkulu? Emva koko, abazali abahlali beqaphela izilwanyana okanye amaphupha abo emfihlelo. Umntwana omdala, kunzima ukumkholisa. Izipho zonyaka omtsha, abantwana kufuneka baqulunqwe kangcono kusengaphambili kwaye baqinisekise ukuba kusengaphambili ukuba kuya kukukholisa imvumba.
Yintoni enokuyinika intombi ngomnyaka omtsha?
Ngentombazana encinci yeminyaka yobudala, idoli iya kuba isipho esihle kakhulu. Yaye ukuba intombi sele ikhona, ke indlu yodolo okanye izesebe ziya kuba zikhululekile. Kuyinto enhle ukubona imfenitshala, isetti yeeyi okanye indlu yonke idoli yakho oyithandayo phantsi komthi weKrismesi! Ngaphambi kokuxoxa ngokuthenga isipho ngezihlobo. Ogqomkhulu kunye nootata banomdla kakhulu ngamantombazana atshabalalisa iholide, athengwa amathoyizi abo awanakho njengomntwana.
Ukongeza kwiidonki okanye izesekeli zeepopi, amantombazana avuyiswe ngeesethi ezahlukeneyo zokudala - ingaba yimbonakaliso yeminwe, isetyenziswe ukutyhila okanye ukudweba. Ngeli xesha, abantwana baqala ukwakha izindlu zamashishini kunye nezihlalo. Unokumkholisa umntwana kunye nentente yakhe.
Yintoni enokunikela unyaka omtsha kwintombi engaphantsi kweminyaka eyi-14? Ngeli thuba kubaluleke kakhulu ukulungiselela ilungu elizayo kwindlela enokwenzeka kunye nokummisela kwimicimbi yasekhaya. Jabulela intombazana eneesethi yezilumkiso zezingane. Ngoku kukho iidopi ezinokuzidweba. Oku kunye nengqiqo yentambiso iyaqhubeka, kwaye umkhwa wokuzinakekela uyakhula. Yenza isetyenzisi sakho sesebenzi ukuze usebenzise intshontshi: iikiti zokudibanisa okanye ukudibanisa. Ukuba unomshini wokuthunga ekhaya, cela intombazana ukuba ihambe kwidolophu yintsimbi enhle kakhulu kunye nemihlobiso yokuzigqoka.
Izipho zonyaka omtsha kubantwana abaneminyaka engaphezu kwe-14 ubudala zixutyushwa kangcono ngaphambili. Njengomthetho, kule minyaka, izimonyo zamama zowesifazane osemtsha wefestile yizona zifunwa kakhulu. Kunokuba uxoxe kwaye ufungele, kungcono ukuphakamisa intombazana ukuba iye kwi-salon efanelekileyo kwaye ufumane izimonyo eziphezulu. I-Bijouterie kunye neefayili yiloo nto ifunayo i-fashionista yakho.
Enkulu, ukuba unamathele umncedisi wakho ekhitshini kwaye sele esezame ukupheka yakhe yokuqala yezolimo. Mnike incwadi yokupheka okanye izinto ezintle zekhitshini, umzekelo, i-apron.
Yintoni endimele ndinike unyana wam ngomnyaka omtsha?
Abafana badla ukudlala ngeentlobo ezahlukeneyo zokudlala amathoyizi ngexesha elide - iipuzzle, abayili. Kwabantwana abadala bakwiimidlalo zeetheyibhile ezifanelekileyo nabalinganiswa bakho abathandayo. Yonke inkwenkwe ithanda iindiza okanye ezinye izixhobo. Ukuba abantwana be-school-age ubudala, le nto ingaba imoto enkulu okanye i-helicopter, kodwa kubafana abakhulileyo, isipho esihle siya kuba ngumzekelo wesistim se-gluing.
Izipho zonyaka omtsha kubantwana kufuneka zingalindelekanga kwaye zikhulu. Emva koko, ngexesha lokuqokelela yonke intsapho kwitheyibhile enye, ndifuna ukudlala i-pranks nokutsala ingqalelo kum. Igitare okanye idrama iya kuphakamisa ngokupheleleyo isimo sengqondo. Ukuzenzele umculo - into enokuzonwabisa ngayo!
Izipho zonyaka omtsha kubantwana zingasebenza. Umzekelo, ibhayisekile. Wonke umntwana uya esikolweni esikolweni, kwaye ieholide ingaba sisihlandlo esihle kakhulu sokuthenga kwakhe.
Kubantwana abangaphezu kweminyaka engama-14 ubudala, sele sivuma ngokupheleleyo isipho esinjengefowuni. Oku ngaphambi kokuba akukho mntu akanakucinga ukuba unako ukunika yakhe iselfowuni. Namhlanje oku kusekuqhelekileyo kuluntu. Ngendlela, ibhola lebhola ekhatywayo kwaye namhlanje ihlala isona sipho esihle kakhulu kwinkwenkwe. Ukuba uyazi ukuba umntwana uthanda uhlobo oluthile lwe-multteroy, mnike izesekeli ezahlukeneyo kwigumbi ngomfanekiso wakhe: T-shirts, iilindo, ifowuni, amathoyizi, ii-posters.