Abantu abaninzi abanakuze bakrokre ukuba banamakhwenkwe emibi ebenokubangela ukucasuka kunye nokuhlaselwa komsindo kwabanye.
Ndiyabulela kwimibono yombono onokufumana ulwazi olunomdla kwaye wenze izilinganiso. Ngaloo ndlela abafazi abathandwayo babuzwa ngayo ngemikhwa yabantu abenza ube nexhala, besyat, bangela ukuba bacaphuke kunye nomsindo. Ekugqibeleni, iimeko eziqhelekileyo zikhethiweyo, mhlawumbi wazibona na?
1. Iglasi emva kweglasi, kodwa ukuphela akubonakali.
Utywala lutshaba lolwalamano, ukuba awuboni umlinganiselo kuwo. Abasetyhini abaninzi basecaleni lokuqhuma, bebona indlela 'atyha' ngayo ethembekileyo endlwini, ngaphandle kokulawula izenzo zakhe namazwi, ngokubanzi, wenza konke okucaphukisayo kwaye kubangele iimvakalelo ezimbi. Kule meko, kufanelekile ukukhumbula inkulumo ethi "awukwazi ukusela, ungaphuzi."
2. Iisokisi ezipholileyo zikhula njengama-mushroom.
Ngaba kunzima kakhulu ukususa iisokisi ngelixa utshintsha iimpahla waza wabubeka ngokukhawuleza kwinqotshu yokuhlamba impahla engcolileyo? Inani elininzi labasetyhini likhalaza ukuba kufuneka bafumane iisoksi phantsi kombhede, kufuphi nekhefu nakweminye indawo eyimfihlo.
3. Musa ukukhupha amehlo akho.
Amadoda ayoloko ekhangelelwa ngabafazi abakhanyayo, abalungileyo nabakhohlisayo, bawulungiselela ngemvelo yendalo, ngelixa bengacingi malunga nento eyenzekayo emphefumlweni wabo, kwaye ke, kholani mna, intaba-mlilo ekulungele ukuqhuma nanini na.
4. Akukho malodramas kunye nemiboniso yangempela.
Kukho amadoda anesiqinisekiso sokuthi akukho nto eqhelekileyo kwiTV ngaphandle kwabalindi-mkhosi, ibhola kunye nabacuphi. Ngoko ke, ngaphandle kokungabaza, batshintshe okanye bafunge, bebona ukuba intanda yabo ibukele i-melodrama okanye "Dom-2".
5. Ukuba unika umgangatho - gcina!
Lo mhlathi uvame ukuvakala emlonyeni wabasetyhini abangenakuvuyela ukuziphatha komntu. Ukuthembisa nokungazalisekanga imeko efanelekileyo kubantu abaninzi, kodwa ndikholelwe, oku akucaphukisi nje kuphela abafazi bam abathandayo, kodwa nabanye abantu. Ukuba kukho ukungathandabuzeki, kungcono ukuba ungathembisi nantoni na.
6. Iimeko zekhitshi.
Ewe, umgaqo wokuba umfazi unkosikazi ekhitshini ikhona, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba kufuneka usebenzise ikhefu. Isitya esilahlayo esingcolileyo, itiye engavumelekanga, i-spoon elandelwe etafileni-konke oku kuphakamisa izinga lokubilisa ngaphakathi kwowesifazane.
7. Ukulala ulala phantsi kwesandi se "drill".
Kakade ke, oku akuthethi ukulungiswa, kwaye konke kuthethwa ngabantu abadumileyo abangakwazi ukulala nokubangela umnqweno wokuqhawula umlenze. Kukho iindlela ezahlukileyo eziya kukunceda ukujamelana nokungaphumeleli, ngoko ucinge ngako.
8. Ndikholelwe, akukho ioli apho.
Amadoda amaninzi afana nokuqoqa iindondo, iindlebe okanye amazinyo, kwaye eyona nto inqabileyo neyona nto iyingozi kakhulu, abanye bayayenza nakwiindawo zoluntu kwaye bengazi kakuhle. Abasetyhini, bebesondele, bazive ngexesha eli lihlazo kunye nokucaphuka.
9. yangasese = iofisi.
Umsebenzi ozithandayo wenani elikhulu lamadoda ukuhlala kwindlu yangasese ixesha elide. Ngoko, umntu ufunda apho kumaphephancwadi, umntu ubukela ividyo okanye udlala kwifowuni, kwaye umntu ulungisa iingxaki zezoshishino. Kubonakala ngathi kukho "indawo yamandla" okanye umbane oheha abantu.
Izandi ezingalawulwayo xa udla ukutya.
Ngaba uMama akazange afundise ukususela ebuntwaneni indlela yokutya ngomlomo ovaliweyo, ngaphandle kokwenza nasiphi isandi esicasulayo? Ndikholelwe, izizathu zokuthi zinomnandi okanye ukutya kushushu kakhulu, kubonakala kungenangqiqo, njengomntu oqhawulayo okanye oqhawulayo.
11. Ukubeka iliso ngokuqhubekayo.
Amadoda angabanikazi, kwaye ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukulawula kwabo kudlula. Bajonga iifowuni, musa ukuhamba ukuhamba kunye nokuvavanya iingxoxo. Konke oku kubangela ukucasuka kwaye kubangele iingxabano.
12. Ngaphandle komfazi, ngaphandle kwezandla.
Kukho amadoda angasetyenziselwa ukuzisebenzela, ngokomzekelo, abakwazi ukufudumala ukutya kwabo, bathathe ifoloki, benze ikhofi. Abafazi, ke, bathanda kwaye kufuneka bajongane namaqabane abo, kodwa yonke into inomda.
13. Ukhoboka lwekhompyutha.
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