Ukuba kwiminyaka edlulileyo umtshato uthathwa njengesiganeko sobabini abathandekayo, imodeli yomtshato yanamhlanje izisa intlangano yayo kwimibutho yeli holide ngokuhlonipha ukudala intsapho entsha. Uninzi lwababini banqwenela ukuququzelela umthendeleko wokubambisana kunye nesidlo esilandelayo, kwaye abaqabane abakule nyathelo abanalo inxaxheba yokugqibela.
Umbala wendabuko wothando uthathwa njengesibomvu, kodwa akusiwo wonke umtshakazi olungeleyo njengengubo yomtshato yokukhetha ingubo yalo mbala wokuqala. Kutheni unganikeli iingubo ezibomvu ukudala imifanekiso yabasetyhini? "Umhlambi" obomvu wamantombazana uya kuba ngumhlobiso womtshato.
Iintlobo ezininzi zezigqibo zobuncwane
Ingubo yomtshato emhlophe yeqhwa yomtshakazi kwimvelaphi yeengubo ezibomvu okanye ezimfutshane zeentombi zakhe ziya kukhangeleka, zikhangele ezinye izinto ezinomdla kumnini wayo. Ukubukeka ngokubambisana kwamantombazana, apho imini yomtshato ibeka ingubo efanayo. Ukwenza ukuba "umfanekiso" jikelele ubonakale uphelele, imbobo ebomvu yomtshato wentombazana yonke intombazana kufuneka igugile kuphela xa inamanani afanayo kunye nokukhula. Kodwa iimeko ezinjalo ziqabile kakhulu, kuba abahlobo abayikhethi. Ukuba amanye amantombazana anesimo esihle kakhulu, emva kweminye imantombazana, baya kubonakala bengenangqiqo kwiingubo ezibomvu ezibomvu.
Ukuxhasa umxholo wobomvu obomvu bangaba nokuba ngaba izitala zokugqoka zizahluka. Ingubo emfutshane, iingubo ezibomvu emgangathweni, isambatho sokugqoka, iingubo ezincinci - zonke iintombazana ezisemtshatweni ziya kudlala indima yabasetyhini, zingakhetha uhlobo olufanelekileyo. Kwaye ukuze uhambe, yiyiphi imbobo ebomvu abafazi abaya kuhambelana nawe, khangela iifoto ezisuka kwigalari yethu.
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